Thursday, July 14, 2005
Tombol
To the Malik family and all of Tombol's friends,
I never had the chance to meet Tombol, but I am with you in grieving his loss. I am outraged with you at the release of his murderers. I am hoping with you that justice is ultimately done. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
The vigil last night was powerful, beautiful. The diversity of friends and supporters that attended says so much about Tombol, the kind of open and loving person he was: able to reach out and connect in world that wants to isolate, suffocate, violate.
I send you peace, hope, and love in this time of grief and outrage.
Yours,
Tanuja
I never had the chance to meet Tombol, but I am with you in grieving his loss. I am outraged with you at the release of his murderers. I am hoping with you that justice is ultimately done. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
The vigil last night was powerful, beautiful. The diversity of friends and supporters that attended says so much about Tombol, the kind of open and loving person he was: able to reach out and connect in world that wants to isolate, suffocate, violate.
I send you peace, hope, and love in this time of grief and outrage.
Yours,
Tanuja
with all my heart...
Tombol's family-
My name is LaToya Jones. Tombol and I were very good friends since the seventh grade at Ray School Rm. 307. Later in high school we became best friends and shared many late night conversations daily and exchanged more than enough witty sarcasm. It absolutely broke my heart to realize that I will never again encounter his beautiful spirit, but I marvel at the more that great times we shared, and it calms me to know that the loved we shared was always real no matter what. In this time of silent sorrow, my entire heart goes out to you guys because I loved Tombol very deeply, and it is impossible to love Tombol without being grateful from the family that he belonged to. I call him my sweet love, and he is.
I love you guys, and may peace be unto you
LaToya Jones
My name is LaToya Jones. Tombol and I were very good friends since the seventh grade at Ray School Rm. 307. Later in high school we became best friends and shared many late night conversations daily and exchanged more than enough witty sarcasm. It absolutely broke my heart to realize that I will never again encounter his beautiful spirit, but I marvel at the more that great times we shared, and it calms me to know that the loved we shared was always real no matter what. In this time of silent sorrow, my entire heart goes out to you guys because I loved Tombol very deeply, and it is impossible to love Tombol without being grateful from the family that he belonged to. I call him my sweet love, and he is.
I love you guys, and may peace be unto you
LaToya Jones
Thoughts to the Family
I am a Kenwood Grad Class of 1991, my older sister Class of 1989 and little sister is Class of 2001. I remember Tombol from Cafe Florian in Hyde Park. We all swore he was so handsome! My sister (c/o 2001) said he went to Kenwood with her, so that added to his appeal.
It is very hard to lose a family member or friend. Our condolences to the family and the peace of God that excels all thought will guard your hearts....
Aletta
It is very hard to lose a family member or friend. Our condolences to the family and the peace of God that excels all thought will guard your hearts....
Aletta
Tombol
Dear Malik Family,
My name is Christina Thomas and I grew up with Anthony and tombol. I attended Ray and Kenwood. I am currently in New Orleans and was very shocked and angered to hear about Tombol's passing. The Ray class of 96 is an extremely close group and we have lost too many. Althought Tombol is gone, he will never be forgotten, his laugh will always be heard through out the hallways of Ray. You are in my thoughts and prayers
Christina
My name is Christina Thomas and I grew up with Anthony and tombol. I attended Ray and Kenwood. I am currently in New Orleans and was very shocked and angered to hear about Tombol's passing. The Ray class of 96 is an extremely close group and we have lost too many. Althought Tombol is gone, he will never be forgotten, his laugh will always be heard through out the hallways of Ray. You are in my thoughts and prayers
Christina
Condolences and Prayers
My name is Michael Brown. I went to Ray School with Tombol from 3rd grade to 8th and we were pretty tight. During lunch time, we always managed to get into something. I can remember when we were In 7th and 8th grade, Tombol would walk with me after school to pick up my little brother Matthew pre-school. Since I stayed in Hyde Park we even hung out after school together.
The one thing that made Tombol special was his humor and wit. He was never a follower and was cool in his own way. Every time we ran into each other we would talk for hours, just catching up on what was going on in our lives. It is really amazing how many people knew Tombol and how many lives he touched. Tombol was truly a good friend and kind person, he will always be missed.
Our condolences and prayers to the Malik family.
Michael, Lurie and Matthew Brown
The one thing that made Tombol special was his humor and wit. He was never a follower and was cool in his own way. Every time we ran into each other we would talk for hours, just catching up on what was going on in our lives. It is really amazing how many people knew Tombol and how many lives he touched. Tombol was truly a good friend and kind person, he will always be missed.
Our condolences and prayers to the Malik family.
Michael, Lurie and Matthew Brown
my thoughts and prayers...
To Samil and Family--
I had heard the story in the news, but Melissa helped me make the connection to you, as I had didn't realize it at the time. I can't even put into words my sympathies. I have a brother, and the thought of losing him is beyond measurable pain. This is truly senseless and I am shocked people as vile are even allowed to walk the streets.
Nothing can ever make up for this loss, but cherish all the memories you have and visit them every day. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. I truly hope that all the support around will provide you with the strength you need to get through this difficult time.
Please take care...
Biny
I had heard the story in the news, but Melissa helped me make the connection to you, as I had didn't realize it at the time. I can't even put into words my sympathies. I have a brother, and the thought of losing him is beyond measurable pain. This is truly senseless and I am shocked people as vile are even allowed to walk the streets.
Nothing can ever make up for this loss, but cherish all the memories you have and visit them every day. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. I truly hope that all the support around will provide you with the strength you need to get through this difficult time.
Please take care...
Biny
Comment on Tombol's tragic death
Our two sons, Michael and Erik, grew up in the Hyde Park Neighborhood and knew Tombol. Michael, in fact, worked with him on occasion. Our family is shocked and saddened by what happened. Please accept on condolences. We will keep you all in our prayers.
Clifford J. Treese
Clifford J. Treese
my condolenses
hello Malik Family,
My name Anwar Burt and I wanted to let you all that tombol was a friend of mine and one of my favorite server while he work at Cafe Florian. We shared many memories and his presence is deeply missed. I have you all in my prayers during this trying time
My name Anwar Burt and I wanted to let you all that tombol was a friend of mine and one of my favorite server while he work at Cafe Florian. We shared many memories and his presence is deeply missed. I have you all in my prayers during this trying time
tombol
Dear Maliks,
I almost don't know where to begin, but I will try. It has been an honor to be with you in this terrible time, you are an incredible family. While I was riding in the car last night with you I was moved by your love for each other and the deep understanding that siblings seem to share. I want to say that you are fortunate to have each other but I also feel that the special bond between the three of you cries out for your lost brother, like something that is perfect and is now missing a piece. It's hard to imagine the horror of loosing a loved one so young and in so violent a manner. When I lost my father I felt both that it was both an undeserved loss and that somehow it was fated. That all the paths of our lives converged on this event and then spred out from it, but it didn't have to happen. This should never have happened to Tombol. I am so sorry and I hope I can be of some comfort as you deal with this tragedy.
Much love,
Ariel
I almost don't know where to begin, but I will try. It has been an honor to be with you in this terrible time, you are an incredible family. While I was riding in the car last night with you I was moved by your love for each other and the deep understanding that siblings seem to share. I want to say that you are fortunate to have each other but I also feel that the special bond between the three of you cries out for your lost brother, like something that is perfect and is now missing a piece. It's hard to imagine the horror of loosing a loved one so young and in so violent a manner. When I lost my father I felt both that it was both an undeserved loss and that somehow it was fated. That all the paths of our lives converged on this event and then spred out from it, but it didn't have to happen. This should never have happened to Tombol. I am so sorry and I hope I can be of some comfort as you deal with this tragedy.
Much love,
Ariel
Tombol Malik
Deepest sympathies for your family during this time and hoping you find comfort in the lifetime of special memories of your brother.
Sandra
New York, NY
Sandra
New York, NY
Thinking of you and praying every day.
Dear Malik family,
When I heard the messages on my answering machine about what had happened to Tombol, the first thing I thought about was how it could not be possible. I'm sure that anyone who knew Tombol would say that he was not the kind of guy who would be in that type of a situation. I knew Tombol since I was nine years old. We went to Ray School, Kenwood, and Harold Washington together. Sati, I do not have enough words to say how sorry I am about this, and how unfortunate this is for you and your family. James, Kitty, and Wyllys are all thinking of you and your family. I have many wonderful memories of Tombol and how supportive he was as my friend. I will miss this big gentle giant. I will always remember the times we spent at Florian, and at Sonoteque where we listened to reggae music. I will remember all of the wonderful and kind words that he said to me and I will never forget him.
love, Leonie Mann
When I heard the messages on my answering machine about what had happened to Tombol, the first thing I thought about was how it could not be possible. I'm sure that anyone who knew Tombol would say that he was not the kind of guy who would be in that type of a situation. I knew Tombol since I was nine years old. We went to Ray School, Kenwood, and Harold Washington together. Sati, I do not have enough words to say how sorry I am about this, and how unfortunate this is for you and your family. James, Kitty, and Wyllys are all thinking of you and your family. I have many wonderful memories of Tombol and how supportive he was as my friend. I will miss this big gentle giant. I will always remember the times we spent at Florian, and at Sonoteque where we listened to reggae music. I will remember all of the wonderful and kind words that he said to me and I will never forget him.
love, Leonie Mann
Tombol
Dear Malik Family,
I hope you will accept my sincerest condolences during this time of loss for your family. I never had the opportunity to know Tombol other then hearing his name from my friend Lana, but I did have the opportunity to meet Samil and Aliya when I came to Chicago in April. Due to the horrendous circumstances of Tombol's death my mind is numb and I feel lacking anything of true solace that could be said to you all. However, know that Samil and Aliya, you are in my thoughts and I wish you and your families peace.
All my best,
Nancy Vitello
Denver, CO
I hope you will accept my sincerest condolences during this time of loss for your family. I never had the opportunity to know Tombol other then hearing his name from my friend Lana, but I did have the opportunity to meet Samil and Aliya when I came to Chicago in April. Due to the horrendous circumstances of Tombol's death my mind is numb and I feel lacking anything of true solace that could be said to you all. However, know that Samil and Aliya, you are in my thoughts and I wish you and your families peace.
All my best,
Nancy Vitello
Denver, CO
Tombol
My name is Suheily Natal and I went to Ray and Kenwood with Tombol. I can't ever remember a time when Tombol wasn't smiling. I am so incredibly sad about this. My prayers continue to be with you.
deepest sorrow
With deepest sympathy I send this to you. I am a junior at UIC and a friend of Tombol. I met him my freshman year. He was such a sweet boy. He was a great person. I wish you strength and hope, that he will most certaintly be in a better place. May God be with you, may God help you understand this tragedy.
Most respectfully,
Farah Shakir
Most respectfully,
Farah Shakir
So very sorry...
My heart goes out to all of you in this time of sorrow, outrage and pain. Mere words can not even begin to express how sad and disheartend our entire family is over Tombol’s horrific death.
My very best regards to all.
Love,
Charly
My very best regards to all.
Love,
Charly
Condolences
Dear Family,
My name is Amy, I'm a friend of Dianne Yurco's. I was acquainted with your mother through Dianne, and have met her, and some others of you, at Dianne's place a couple of times.
I am so sorry to hear this devastating news. Words fail entirely.
If I can be of any assistance to you, I hope you will call on me. I live in Hyde Park, I have a car. I know Dianne is away. If I can help out with rides or in any other way, I would like to.
I keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.
Yours in sorrow,
-Amy
My name is Amy, I'm a friend of Dianne Yurco's. I was acquainted with your mother through Dianne, and have met her, and some others of you, at Dianne's place a couple of times.
I am so sorry to hear this devastating news. Words fail entirely.
If I can be of any assistance to you, I hope you will call on me. I live in Hyde Park, I have a car. I know Dianne is away. If I can help out with rides or in any other way, I would like to.
I keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.
Yours in sorrow,
-Amy
We are greiving ...
with you all. I was blessed to know Tombol at the Park Grill. He clearly demonstrated a big heart and pure family values. We knew him as a friendly team player who understood the value of "making people happy." He'll be missed. My prayers are with the family.
Mario Ponce
former General Manager, Park Grill at Millennium Park
Mario Ponce
former General Manager, Park Grill at Millennium Park
Tombol
Dear Malik Family,
I smile when I think of how we used play in that big old yard in back of your building on Maryland and the tot-lot after school and all summer long. Sati, Shiera, Samil, Molly, Jay, Heather, Danny and I.
In 7th grade something happened to Sati. Girls lost their minds over him. He became this hottie! I could tell he wanted to run for his life from some of them. I recall when Tombol was a lump in his mother's tummy and then when he first began walking. He grabbed EVERYTHING he could reach. Shiera and I used to play with him and say, "What a happy little guy he is." He had the most infectious laugh when he was little. (I hope that carried into his adulthood.) I can see that he grew up to be happy and very loved guy.
Tombol will be greatly missed.
You are in my prayers Malik Family.
Shafi
I smile when I think of how we used play in that big old yard in back of your building on Maryland and the tot-lot after school and all summer long. Sati, Shiera, Samil, Molly, Jay, Heather, Danny and I.
In 7th grade something happened to Sati. Girls lost their minds over him. He became this hottie! I could tell he wanted to run for his life from some of them. I recall when Tombol was a lump in his mother's tummy and then when he first began walking. He grabbed EVERYTHING he could reach. Shiera and I used to play with him and say, "What a happy little guy he is." He had the most infectious laugh when he was little. (I hope that carried into his adulthood.) I can see that he grew up to be happy and very loved guy.
Tombol will be greatly missed.
You are in my prayers Malik Family.
Shafi
Tombol
Samil and Family
My name is Gina (Cervantes) Egeland I am formerly of Chicago and am currently living in Iowa City, IA. Samil, you will remember me as your manager several years ago at the Structure store on Michigan Avenue. I was reading the Chicago Tribune online on Sunday when I came across the article regarding the tragic death of your beloved brother Tombol, my heart dropped when I realized through quotes and later pictures in the paper that it was indeed your brother. I have been thinking of all of you ever since, just cannot get you out of my mind. I am so sorry for the loss that you are experiencing, I have two brothers and although they live on opposite ends of the country, cannot imagine what my life would be without them. I wish that I could be with you tonight at the gathering that you are holding to express your outrage that one of these individuals has been released on bail, as I am outraged as well, I will be there with you in spirit. I can see from all the letters from friends and family on the web-site you created for Tombol that he was a very special person, I know I would have liked him as I instantly did Samil when I hired him on so many years ago. Through the strength of your family and friends you will get through this dark time. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
God Bless,
Gina (Cervantes) Egeland
My name is Gina (Cervantes) Egeland I am formerly of Chicago and am currently living in Iowa City, IA. Samil, you will remember me as your manager several years ago at the Structure store on Michigan Avenue. I was reading the Chicago Tribune online on Sunday when I came across the article regarding the tragic death of your beloved brother Tombol, my heart dropped when I realized through quotes and later pictures in the paper that it was indeed your brother. I have been thinking of all of you ever since, just cannot get you out of my mind. I am so sorry for the loss that you are experiencing, I have two brothers and although they live on opposite ends of the country, cannot imagine what my life would be without them. I wish that I could be with you tonight at the gathering that you are holding to express your outrage that one of these individuals has been released on bail, as I am outraged as well, I will be there with you in spirit. I can see from all the letters from friends and family on the web-site you created for Tombol that he was a very special person, I know I would have liked him as I instantly did Samil when I hired him on so many years ago. Through the strength of your family and friends you will get through this dark time. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
God Bless,
Gina (Cervantes) Egeland
deepest sympathy for Tombol...
Dearest Malik Family,
I met Tombol only a couple of years ago dancing around from scene to scene. He has always been one of the nicest guys I've met. We would joke around more than anything, never serious, but he'd watch us girls in a protective manner...always a safe-keeper.
I am so sorry for the loss of such a wonderful and endearing brother, son and friend. His spirit will forever grace us and remind us to stay gentle. I can only hope that this horrible event will find the justice it deserves. Know that all of us stand next to your family and that when you call on us for comfort or help, an army will be waiting.
Peace be with you,
~Anna~ Medakovich
I met Tombol only a couple of years ago dancing around from scene to scene. He has always been one of the nicest guys I've met. We would joke around more than anything, never serious, but he'd watch us girls in a protective manner...always a safe-keeper.
I am so sorry for the loss of such a wonderful and endearing brother, son and friend. His spirit will forever grace us and remind us to stay gentle. I can only hope that this horrible event will find the justice it deserves. Know that all of us stand next to your family and that when you call on us for comfort or help, an army will be waiting.
Peace be with you,
~Anna~ Medakovich
from his librarian at Ray
Dear Malik Family,
It was my honor and priviledge to know Tombol every year that he was at Ray School. At the school library, I see children over a period of years and watch them grow and develop. Tombol is one of the people that I knew as a student at Ray who made a lasting impression on me. He loved his friends, especially Anthony. He loved baseball. He loved coming to the Library and just talking, sometimes skipping lunch recess to do so. He was always part of whatever was going on, but he had a gentle, reflective streak and he enjoyed coming to discuss his feelings, his hopes and his dreams in a quiet place.
Leslie
It was my honor and priviledge to know Tombol every year that he was at Ray School. At the school library, I see children over a period of years and watch them grow and develop. Tombol is one of the people that I knew as a student at Ray who made a lasting impression on me. He loved his friends, especially Anthony. He loved baseball. He loved coming to the Library and just talking, sometimes skipping lunch recess to do so. He was always part of whatever was going on, but he had a gentle, reflective streak and he enjoyed coming to discuss his feelings, his hopes and his dreams in a quiet place.
Leslie
Tombol Malik
Dear Malik Family:
I want to express my deepest sympathy for your loss. I was a friend of Tombol, we attended Kenwood High School together.
Very truly yours,
DeAnna Rose Foster
I want to express my deepest sympathy for your loss. I was a friend of Tombol, we attended Kenwood High School together.
Very truly yours,
DeAnna Rose Foster
Condolences
To the Malik family,
I didn't know Tombol, but I play soccer often with Sati. I just wanted to express my sympathies for your loss. What happened to him was truly a tragedy, and my prayers are with you.
--Eric Sun
I didn't know Tombol, but I play soccer often with Sati. I just wanted to express my sympathies for your loss. What happened to him was truly a tragedy, and my prayers are with you.
--Eric Sun
Tombol
Our family was heartbroken to hear and read about Tombol and the horrific circumstances of his death. We are friends of the Straus family, and had met and seen Tombol with David on many occasions. Our daughter, Rebecca, was a year behind him at Ray, and remembers Tombol with great fondness. Words are never adequate for such circumstances, but please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. We hope that you can find some peace in your memories of such a fine young man.
The Nichols Family
The Nichols Family
Tombol
I do not believe I had the pleasure of knowing Tombol, but what a shame for what seems to be a good person. My thoughts and well wishes are with the Malik family, and may God rest Tombol's soul. I pray that justice will prevail to the monsters that did this.
Nicole B.
Nicole B.
Sincere condolences
To the Malik family --
I did not know Tombol but I wanted to express my sincere sympathy and sadness over such a tragic and needless act of violence.
Tombol appears to have been one of God's chosen soldiers. It's the loss of what could have been for Tombol that makes me the saddest of all -
I hope you will all find the strength to carry on soon --
David Gariano
I did not know Tombol but I wanted to express my sincere sympathy and sadness over such a tragic and needless act of violence.
Tombol appears to have been one of God's chosen soldiers. It's the loss of what could have been for Tombol that makes me the saddest of all -
I hope you will all find the strength to carry on soon --
David Gariano
My Condolences to the Malik Family
My condolences to Tombol's Mother and Family, I did not know your family, nor Tombol. As a mother I feel your mother's heart breaking, as a sister, I also feel the brother's and sister's heart breaking. But rest assure that God will prevail and bring justice to this injustice. Man might not punish this injustice, but God will prevail and bring
comfort and justice where it is needed the most. Put everything in God's hands and you will find peace. Remember that there are loving people in this world that care about you and feeling your pain as their own. God Bless you and give you strength in the days to come.
Angelica,
Elgin, IL.
comfort and justice where it is needed the most. Put everything in God's hands and you will find peace. Remember that there are loving people in this world that care about you and feeling your pain as their own. God Bless you and give you strength in the days to come.
Angelica,
Elgin, IL.
Thank You Tombol
Thank you, Tombol,
Thank you for always making us smile and laugh! Thank you for caring about poverty,homelessness, and suffering in the world. Thank you for putting others beforeyourself. Thank you for being kind, considerate, and compassionate. Thank you for always being polite. Thank you for thinking outside the box. Thank you for living your life with conviction and purpose. Thank you for being principled. Thank you for respecting all people. Thank you for wanting to make a difference. Thank you for making me think about my own brothers each time I saw you interact with yours. Thank you for giving so much joy and love to your family. Thank you for being an example to all of us. Thank you for being the sunshine in so many lives.
Jim Thiede
Thank you for always making us smile and laugh! Thank you for caring about poverty,homelessness, and suffering in the world. Thank you for putting others beforeyourself. Thank you for being kind, considerate, and compassionate. Thank you for always being polite. Thank you for thinking outside the box. Thank you for living your life with conviction and purpose. Thank you for being principled. Thank you for respecting all people. Thank you for wanting to make a difference. Thank you for making me think about my own brothers each time I saw you interact with yours. Thank you for giving so much joy and love to your family. Thank you for being an example to all of us. Thank you for being the sunshine in so many lives.
Jim Thiede
Tombol
I knew about this senseless act of violence, but was unaware that the victim was Tombol until I saw his photo. The only way I can adequately describe the way I felt was numb. I worked with Tombol three years ago, and though it was only for a few short months, I always remembered his sense of humor, intelligence and the way he carried himself with a sense of purpose. I still cannot believe that this happened. As evident by the fact that I only "knew" him for roughly 90 days and his passing has affected me in such profound fashion, you can rest assured that your son and brother was truly a special man.
My most heartfelt condolences.
Blair Borgia
My most heartfelt condolences.
Blair Borgia
Tombol
Dear
Shiera, Sati, Samil Mom and Dad,
My heart goes out to you. Tombol was such a sweet gentle sole and loved by everyone who knew him. I love you all and my thoughts and prayers are with you. I can not imagine the pain and sorrow you all are feeling. Watching you all grow up was a pure joy for me and I will miss Tombol his sweet smile, wonderful sense of humor, how respectful he was towards others and how helpful and caring he was towards people and animals. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love you all
Christine Bailey
Shiera, Sati, Samil Mom and Dad,
My heart goes out to you. Tombol was such a sweet gentle sole and loved by everyone who knew him. I love you all and my thoughts and prayers are with you. I can not imagine the pain and sorrow you all are feeling. Watching you all grow up was a pure joy for me and I will miss Tombol his sweet smile, wonderful sense of humor, how respectful he was towards others and how helpful and caring he was towards people and animals. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love you all
Christine Bailey
Tombol
My name is Toska Palmer. I didn't know Tombol but felt compelled to read this story posted. Life can be so unfair at times but know that Tombol is in a better place. I know that there's nothing that I or anyone else can say to ease your pain, but know that Tombol is looking down on us wishing that we could have as much peace as he does right now.
Justice will be served.
Justice will be served.
Tombol
Dear Malik family,
I wanted to offer my condolences during this difficult time. May Tombol's soul rest in peace and may you find the strength and courage to bear this irreparable loss.
I knew Tombol very well. From the minute I met him, I knew he was special. He had smile that would melt your heart, laughter so infectious that your sides would hurt. He was a kind and gentle human being, who made everyone feel special. You should be proud of the son you raised.
He will never be forgotten by the people who loved and cared about him.
It is difficult to comprehend how people behave these days and take away innocent lives. I hope that justice is brought to those animals that committed such a vicious and cruel crime.
Jeannine Colaco
I wanted to offer my condolences during this difficult time. May Tombol's soul rest in peace and may you find the strength and courage to bear this irreparable loss.
I knew Tombol very well. From the minute I met him, I knew he was special. He had smile that would melt your heart, laughter so infectious that your sides would hurt. He was a kind and gentle human being, who made everyone feel special. You should be proud of the son you raised.
He will never be forgotten by the people who loved and cared about him.
It is difficult to comprehend how people behave these days and take away innocent lives. I hope that justice is brought to those animals that committed such a vicious and cruel crime.
Jeannine Colaco
Tombol
I didn't know Tombol. We went through Kenwood eleven years apart. But I knew Sheira from that time and I knew a little about your family. Since Tombol's death, I have learned a lot more. The courage and compassion you all have shown in the face of indescribable tragedy is inspiring. I am amazed by the effort you have put forth to create space for friends of Tombol, and all people who deplore acts of senseless violence, to express their feelings and speak their piece. The result, such an outpouring of affection and sadness, speaks volumes.
My heart goes out to you.
Joe Asbury
My heart goes out to you.
Joe Asbury
Tombol
I was so distressed to hear about Tombol's death and to experience with Mike the terrible unfolding of the details of his senseless death. To witness how Mike and Erik have been affected by this loss I am aware for the first time what a wonderful presence he was in their lives. My heart goes out to you all.
Jean Treese
Jean Treese
My condolences
Hello Samil and family,
This is Cory Swafford(from U of I) and I just learned
the tragic news. I want send my deepest condolences
to you and your family.
Cory
This is Cory Swafford(from U of I) and I just learned
the tragic news. I want send my deepest condolences
to you and your family.
Cory
Tombol
I do not know you, but after seeing the first dreadful news report of Tombol's attack and death I have not been able to get this horrific senseless tragedy out of my mind. I can only imagine the sorrow, anger, and emotional turmoil you are going through. With tears in my eyes, I read the many posts on the web site you have set up for Tombol, and he was so loved. Everyone speaks of him with such admiration. It is easy to see in your pictures how close and loving your family is. I do not understand why this happened, but as a mother myself I felt inclined to write and express my heartfelt sorrow for your family. I hope with time, and the wonderful memories you have of Tombol, the pain will lesson. I know it will be a hard road, but just reading about Tombol tells me he would want those he loved to live out their lives in the same joyous way you did when he was with you. He will want you to carry on for him just as he remembers life with his family and friends. I know there is not much I can say to relieve your sorrow at this time, but I hope it helps to know so many people are praying for Tombol, his family and friends.
Just a stranger who cares,
Nancy
Just a stranger who cares,
Nancy
Tombol...
Tombol, it was a privilege to have known someone as genuine, down to earth, compassionate, and funny as you. The world needs more people like you.
We send our deepest sympathies to the Malik family.
-Alan & Sadie
We send our deepest sympathies to the Malik family.
-Alan & Sadie
Prayers
To the Malik Family,
I don't know your family, but I can tell that you are very close. I read about the senseless tragedy in the newspaper and normally just keep on going with my life. As someone with two siblings I couldn't help but feel your sadness.
I just wanted to let you know that my family will offer our deepest condolences and prayers to your family and hope that your brother rests in peace.
Sincerely,
Bruno Dacanay and family
Chicago IL
I don't know your family, but I can tell that you are very close. I read about the senseless tragedy in the newspaper and normally just keep on going with my life. As someone with two siblings I couldn't help but feel your sadness.
I just wanted to let you know that my family will offer our deepest condolences and prayers to your family and hope that your brother rests in peace.
Sincerely,
Bruno Dacanay and family
Chicago IL
I'm sorry
To the Malik Family,
My name is Daniel Rogers and I went to Ray school, Kenwood Academy and played Baseball with Tombol for a few years when we were kids. I'm terribly sorry to hear what has happened. My mother Julie Less passes on her condolences as well. You'd think we'd be beyond such pettiness in this world. There is so much that I would like to say, but then again there is nothing that I can say. So, I will just leave you with my thoughts, prayers and the wish that you all can find some measure of peace despite this tragic occurence.
Daniel
My name is Daniel Rogers and I went to Ray school, Kenwood Academy and played Baseball with Tombol for a few years when we were kids. I'm terribly sorry to hear what has happened. My mother Julie Less passes on her condolences as well. You'd think we'd be beyond such pettiness in this world. There is so much that I would like to say, but then again there is nothing that I can say. So, I will just leave you with my thoughts, prayers and the wish that you all can find some measure of peace despite this tragic occurence.
Daniel
Sympathy goes out to Tombol's family and friends...
Dear Malik Family:
I never knew Tombol or anyone from your family. I live in Palos Park and read all about the tragedy in the Tribune and Southtown yesterday--my face was tear streaked by the end of the article. I have not stopped thinking about this incident since I first heard about it. My sympathy and thoughts are with all of you who knew Tombol. I am sickened by what happened...and outraged that a bond was set. I have been discussing this incident with all of my friends...and we are all truly upset by this tragedy. I cannot begin to imagine how the family and friends must feel. This has made me remember what a cruel world we live in--justice must be reached in this case! Know that Tombol's story is spreading and uniting strangers together...though I never knew him, he has definitely still touched my life.
My prayers are with the Malik family and friends.
God Bless,
Shannon
I never knew Tombol or anyone from your family. I live in Palos Park and read all about the tragedy in the Tribune and Southtown yesterday--my face was tear streaked by the end of the article. I have not stopped thinking about this incident since I first heard about it. My sympathy and thoughts are with all of you who knew Tombol. I am sickened by what happened...and outraged that a bond was set. I have been discussing this incident with all of my friends...and we are all truly upset by this tragedy. I cannot begin to imagine how the family and friends must feel. This has made me remember what a cruel world we live in--justice must be reached in this case! Know that Tombol's story is spreading and uniting strangers together...though I never knew him, he has definitely still touched my life.
My prayers are with the Malik family and friends.
God Bless,
Shannon
My condolence
My name is Dr. Shelby Wyatt. I am a guidance counselor at Kenwood Academy. I was one of the counselor who worked with Tombol or "Malik" as I called him when he was a student at Kenwood. I'm in utter shock. I learned of this tragedy while vacationing in Baltimore. My sincerest prayers and offers of condolence is extended to each family member and friend. I have found memories of Tombol, especially as he tried to get me to pronounce his last name Malik (short a sound) instead of Malique.
Dr. Wyatt
Dr. Wyatt
tombol my friend
Hello
My name is Kevin Lakin i have know Tombol since 2001 through Ben Drake and i got to say he was always happy and having a good time with life. I also DJ and for the past few years Tombol and crew would support me by showing up and being the life of the party. When i heard aobut this inhumane act i thought this city has gone crazy cause it just lost most of it's mass appeal without Tombol. I just really want your family to know that there is a lot of love from many people young and old that will deeply miss Tombol, and his smile and that your family will stay strong and make the best out of the situation. You have all the love in my hart as if i was another son. please accept these kind words into your hearts.
Love
Kevin A Lakin
A.K.A DJ EMO
My name is Kevin Lakin i have know Tombol since 2001 through Ben Drake and i got to say he was always happy and having a good time with life. I also DJ and for the past few years Tombol and crew would support me by showing up and being the life of the party. When i heard aobut this inhumane act i thought this city has gone crazy cause it just lost most of it's mass appeal without Tombol. I just really want your family to know that there is a lot of love from many people young and old that will deeply miss Tombol, and his smile and that your family will stay strong and make the best out of the situation. You have all the love in my hart as if i was another son. please accept these kind words into your hearts.
Love
Kevin A Lakin
A.K.A DJ EMO
Tombol
The family and friends of Tombol,
I met Tombol through mutual friends about three years ago. Three of the most memorable weeks of my life were spent with him enjoying the beaches and festivities of Brazil. We traveled through Rio with a carefree attitude, taking in the times and adventures. For the duration of the trip, we were able to experience the beauty of life. We stayed with about 12 people in a three bedroom aprtment. Instead of complaining, Tombol slept outside in a hammock every single night, and left more space for everyone else. That was the kind of person that he was. Although his life was ended by a savage act of violence, nothing can take away the times that people shared with him or the legacy that he leaves us with.
Vincent Goldstein
I met Tombol through mutual friends about three years ago. Three of the most memorable weeks of my life were spent with him enjoying the beaches and festivities of Brazil. We traveled through Rio with a carefree attitude, taking in the times and adventures. For the duration of the trip, we were able to experience the beauty of life. We stayed with about 12 people in a three bedroom aprtment. Instead of complaining, Tombol slept outside in a hammock every single night, and left more space for everyone else. That was the kind of person that he was. Although his life was ended by a savage act of violence, nothing can take away the times that people shared with him or the legacy that he leaves us with.
Vincent Goldstein
We Will Miss U!
Dear Malik Family,
I am sorry for your loss. I know words could never fill the empty space in your hearts. Tombol was an amazing guy. His smile brought happiness to everyone. My sister and I will never forget the times he made us laugh. He will be truly missed.
Miriam
I am sorry for your loss. I know words could never fill the empty space in your hearts. Tombol was an amazing guy. His smile brought happiness to everyone. My sister and I will never forget the times he made us laugh. He will be truly missed.
Miriam
My Condolences
Malik Family,
I want to send my deepest condolences. I cannot begin
to describe how shocked and hurt I am right now. May justice prevail.
Sincerly,
Brent Nikolin
I want to send my deepest condolences. I cannot begin
to describe how shocked and hurt I am right now. May justice prevail.
Sincerly,
Brent Nikolin
Tombol
My heart and prayers for Tombol and his family-
I am so lucky to have known Tombol. He was the lil big heart man of the crew from the Florian. He always had your back, he knew and spoke the truth, and he kept us laughing ALL the time. I have to know that things were better when he was around...my prayers
and heart go to the Malik family. - Patrick Brown
I am so lucky to have known Tombol. He was the lil big heart man of the crew from the Florian. He always had your back, he knew and spoke the truth, and he kept us laughing ALL the time. I have to know that things were better when he was around...my prayers
and heart go to the Malik family. - Patrick Brown
Remembering Tombol
When Tombol was about 9 years old he accidentally saw my mom in her bra. I remember him immediately covering his eyes and ducking his head. For as long as I knew him, Tombol always exuded that same aura of child-like innocence. Tombol’s wondrous eyes absorbed only the splendor of the world around him. Tombol translated that splendor it into a brilliant smile that he so generously shared with us. His smile exuded a joy and vivaciousness beyond description. I wish I could cover my eyes and duck my head in response to this horrible tragedy. I am so deeply sorry for your loss. Only the good die young.
Rachael S.
Rachael S.
Tombol
Tombol always seemed so happy and funny whenever I saw him in the hallways at Kenwood. He and my brother graduated in the same year and he and I both are saddened at the news of his passing. When my brother learned of his death, he was out with friends and could not bring himself to dance knowing what happened. So thank you to his family for nurturing the gift that was Tombol and my family's prayers are with you.
Nicole and Alvin Black 3rd & family
Nicole and Alvin Black 3rd & family
Little Brother
Mr. & Mrs. Malik, Shiera, Sati, and Samil
We offer our deepest sympathies and prayers for your family. My name's Theo. It was never spoken, but I felt that it was a mutual feeling between Tombol and I, that he was like a little brother to me. His loss has affected me in a way that I would have never thought possible. Trips to New York and working together at Florian are only a small part of the memories that I'll cherish. Tombol's approach to life and new experiences was one of wide-eyed curiosity. His sense of humor and quick wit were his trademark. He was one of the most mature young men that I ever had the good fortune of meeting. His physical form may no longer exist, but his spirit remains.
Love you little brother,
Theo, Melissa, & Miles
We offer our deepest sympathies and prayers for your family. My name's Theo. It was never spoken, but I felt that it was a mutual feeling between Tombol and I, that he was like a little brother to me. His loss has affected me in a way that I would have never thought possible. Trips to New York and working together at Florian are only a small part of the memories that I'll cherish. Tombol's approach to life and new experiences was one of wide-eyed curiosity. His sense of humor and quick wit were his trademark. He was one of the most mature young men that I ever had the good fortune of meeting. His physical form may no longer exist, but his spirit remains.
Love you little brother,
Theo, Melissa, & Miles
My condolenses
The Malik Family,
Ever since I met Tombol on the varanda in me and Ben's apartment in Brazil, I noticed that we saw the world through the same light. He was a visionary with an incredibly strong character that never stopped fighting for justice and truth. We would talk about how the world needed to be changed and how we would change it. When there was a moral dilemma he would help me look at things objectively to see what was the best thing to do. He would be most appalled by what happened Sat. But Im sure he would still have faith. He became one of my best friends in in only two years of knowing him. I will never forget how he inspired me to never lower the bar on whats right and
whats wrong. I remember how important it was for him to ensure that his sister had a good time when she visited and that everyone treated her with respect. He put her and his other family members before everyone and I regret greatly not being at the vigil. I send my deepest blessings to the Malik family. Throughout the day, and mostly when I go to sleep, I shake my head in disbelief so as to wake myself up from this nightmare. He has changed me and will be in my heart, wherever I go, forever.
genuinely,
alex
Ever since I met Tombol on the varanda in me and Ben's apartment in Brazil, I noticed that we saw the world through the same light. He was a visionary with an incredibly strong character that never stopped fighting for justice and truth. We would talk about how the world needed to be changed and how we would change it. When there was a moral dilemma he would help me look at things objectively to see what was the best thing to do. He would be most appalled by what happened Sat. But Im sure he would still have faith. He became one of my best friends in in only two years of knowing him. I will never forget how he inspired me to never lower the bar on whats right and
whats wrong. I remember how important it was for him to ensure that his sister had a good time when she visited and that everyone treated her with respect. He put her and his other family members before everyone and I regret greatly not being at the vigil. I send my deepest blessings to the Malik family. Throughout the day, and mostly when I go to sleep, I shake my head in disbelief so as to wake myself up from this nightmare. He has changed me and will be in my heart, wherever I go, forever.
genuinely,
alex
Big Smiles
Smiling! BIG SMILES! I mean HUGE! That is how I remember 4 year old Tombol tagging along behind his big brother Sati at Hyde Park Soccer club games. When I saw Tombol just over a year ago at the Café Florian… he was smiling! Tombol is smiling in all of the pictures on your BLOG. When I think about Tombol, and not the horror of this tragedy… I cannot help but SMILE! I know Tombol is watching over us all… and I bet he’s smiling!
My deepest condolences…
Erik Treese
My deepest condolences…
Erik Treese
Big Smiles
Smiling! BIG SMILES! I mean HUGE!
That is how I remember 4 year old Tombol tagging along behind his big brother Sati at Hyde Park Soccer club games. When I saw Tombol just over a year ago at the Café Florian… he was smiling! Tombol is smiling in all of the pictures on your BLOG.
When I think about Tombol, and not the horror of this tragedy… I cannot help but SMILE! I know Tombol is watching over us all… and I bet he’s smiling!
My deepest condolences…
Erik Treese
That is how I remember 4 year old Tombol tagging along behind his big brother Sati at Hyde Park Soccer club games. When I saw Tombol just over a year ago at the Café Florian… he was smiling! Tombol is smiling in all of the pictures on your BLOG.
When I think about Tombol, and not the horror of this tragedy… I cannot help but SMILE! I know Tombol is watching over us all… and I bet he’s smiling!
My deepest condolences…
Erik Treese
Please be strong...
please be strong, and carry on Tombol's light within yourselves. I pray for peace in my city of Chicago, and in the world.
signed,
an aquaintance of Anthony Popelka, he knows me as Skulken from TZT.
signed,
an aquaintance of Anthony Popelka, he knows me as Skulken from TZT.
Remembering Tombol
I knew of Tombol through my brother fred who graduated from Kenwood in 2001. As i returned home from out of town on Monday, my brother called and said Tombol had been killed. I was sadden by this news and thought how could a person murder such a nice person as Tombol. He was a bright young man with a promising future. To the Malik family i am sorry for your loss and you will be in my contiunal prayers. The memory of Tombol will always be with me and. I know the Kenwood Academy Alumni who knew Tombol are sadden by the loss but know we must not forget the times we had at Kenwood. For his memory will live on.
Respect in Peace Tombol
Donald Penman
Respect in Peace Tombol
Donald Penman
To Tombol
Tombol-
I remember the first time I met you ... it was on your birthday this year. Aliya had told me so much about you and Samil, I was excited to finally get the faces with the names. I remember feeling instantly accepted, you were just that kind of person. You just had a way of making people feel that they were worth knowing. You would go out of your way to make sure that everyone had what they needed ... was comfortable ... having a good time ... it was who you were, you couldn't help it. You turned out to be one of my favorite dance partners ... me you and Aliya @ Sound Bar love those pics!! It seemed like whenever we would hang out there was some sort of dancing and just ... happiness involved, I mean, people were just happy around you. I feel so lucky that I got to spend that evening with you and Paul having drinks and talking about films ... you had great taste in movies and a hilarious NY Italian accent that you would throw out at just the right time and make everyone laugh, it never got tired, it was always funny. You were so passionate about your trip to Egypt and my mom had just gotten back, I remember how interested you were in her experience and thinking ... wow, this human being is so incredibly special. I'm not sure that you had any idea how much I looked forward to seeing you, even though I know you know now and that, in a way, is comforting.
Thank you for letting me know you for the brief time I did ... I will always remember your life and celebrate your incredible spirit.
With all the love I have-
Lana
I remember the first time I met you ... it was on your birthday this year. Aliya had told me so much about you and Samil, I was excited to finally get the faces with the names. I remember feeling instantly accepted, you were just that kind of person. You just had a way of making people feel that they were worth knowing. You would go out of your way to make sure that everyone had what they needed ... was comfortable ... having a good time ... it was who you were, you couldn't help it. You turned out to be one of my favorite dance partners ... me you and Aliya @ Sound Bar love those pics!! It seemed like whenever we would hang out there was some sort of dancing and just ... happiness involved, I mean, people were just happy around you. I feel so lucky that I got to spend that evening with you and Paul having drinks and talking about films ... you had great taste in movies and a hilarious NY Italian accent that you would throw out at just the right time and make everyone laugh, it never got tired, it was always funny. You were so passionate about your trip to Egypt and my mom had just gotten back, I remember how interested you were in her experience and thinking ... wow, this human being is so incredibly special. I'm not sure that you had any idea how much I looked forward to seeing you, even though I know you know now and that, in a way, is comforting.
Thank you for letting me know you for the brief time I did ... I will always remember your life and celebrate your incredible spirit.
With all the love I have-
Lana
tombol, rest in peace
Dearest Malik Family,
Ever since my nephew Anthony was a little kid, I have always heard the name Tombol. Tombol was like a brother to Anthony, an integral part of his life. I have a feeling that many people felt this way about Tombol and that is a wonderful tribute to him and to you, his family. Please know that we are all feeling your pain and sorrow during this horrific time and our thoughts and prayers are with you. Words cannot express our solidarity with you. Living so far away, I feel so helpless as I cannot be there for my nephew during his great pain and sorrow. Therefore, I can only pray that the heavens and angels give you all the strength to carry on.
With deepest regret and sympathy,
Annie Popelka
Madrid, Spain
Ever since my nephew Anthony was a little kid, I have always heard the name Tombol. Tombol was like a brother to Anthony, an integral part of his life. I have a feeling that many people felt this way about Tombol and that is a wonderful tribute to him and to you, his family. Please know that we are all feeling your pain and sorrow during this horrific time and our thoughts and prayers are with you. Words cannot express our solidarity with you. Living so far away, I feel so helpless as I cannot be there for my nephew during his great pain and sorrow. Therefore, I can only pray that the heavens and angels give you all the strength to carry on.
With deepest regret and sympathy,
Annie Popelka
Madrid, Spain
Tombol
Samil: When I first heard the news about Tombol I did not make the connection that he was your brother until I saw your picture in today's Tribune. It's a terrible, senseless tragedy.
Katey and I send our deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Warm regards,
Bob
Katey and I send our deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Warm regards,
Bob
quotes
Yesterday I learned that Tombol loved Charles Dickens. As I fumble to come up with my own words to describe the many memories and feelings I have about Tombol and his family, I thought I would turn to Dickens for some help. Here are a few quotes that speak to Tombol’s kindness, generosity and beauty—and how much he is loved.
“A loving heart is the truest wisdom.”
“Charity begins at home, and justice begins next door.”
“Cheerfulness and contentment are great beautifiers and are famous preservers of youthful looks.”
“Friendless I can never be, for all mankind are my kindred, and I am on ill terms with no one member of my great family.”
Gin Kilgore
“A loving heart is the truest wisdom.”
“Charity begins at home, and justice begins next door.”
“Cheerfulness and contentment are great beautifiers and are famous preservers of youthful looks.”
“Friendless I can never be, for all mankind are my kindred, and I am on ill terms with no one member of my great family.”
Gin Kilgore
our heartfelt thoughts are with you
Dear Karen, Sheira, Sati, and Samil,
John and I are so sorry and saddened by the news of Tombol, and he, along with each of you, has been in the forefront of our thoughts these last few days. He was such a nice kid, and from all accounts he had become a wonderful young man as well. I feel guilty for not having made more of an effort to keep in touch. In spite of that, we often think about all of you and the good times that we had together. I can still hear Tombol's infectious laugh and see his playful eyes as he was thinking of a "trick" to play on someone. Our lives are richer for having known him, and we'll cherish our memories of him always.
Love,
Trinda and John
John and I are so sorry and saddened by the news of Tombol, and he, along with each of you, has been in the forefront of our thoughts these last few days. He was such a nice kid, and from all accounts he had become a wonderful young man as well. I feel guilty for not having made more of an effort to keep in touch. In spite of that, we often think about all of you and the good times that we had together. I can still hear Tombol's infectious laugh and see his playful eyes as he was thinking of a "trick" to play on someone. Our lives are richer for having known him, and we'll cherish our memories of him always.
Love,
Trinda and John
He Was One Of My Best Friends
My name is Anthony Roberts and Tombol was one of my closest friends. Since high school, he was one of the few people in my circle that I can say that I truly loved. I'm still not quite wrapping my mind around this whole thing because we had made plans to do radio show and clothing line in the near future and now its like...I offer my deepest sympathy for Mrs. Malik and all of Tombols siblings. He will truly be missed
Anthony Roberts
Anthony Roberts
Your Son & Brother
To the Malik Family,
I would like to express my sympathy during this challenging time. I hope the many thoughtful words that you have received from people you know and those you don't will offer you comfort. The world we share is a complicated place and tragic events sure appear that the world is turning upside down. May you be surrounded by the love of your family during these days. Know that the citizens of Chicago are thinking of you. Your son and brother truly had a wonderful spirit and a great sense of humor. To the parents, you did something right in how you raised this fine citizen of the world. Please feel proud in this.
With Compassion,
Steven Cohn
Skokie
I would like to express my sympathy during this challenging time. I hope the many thoughtful words that you have received from people you know and those you don't will offer you comfort. The world we share is a complicated place and tragic events sure appear that the world is turning upside down. May you be surrounded by the love of your family during these days. Know that the citizens of Chicago are thinking of you. Your son and brother truly had a wonderful spirit and a great sense of humor. To the parents, you did something right in how you raised this fine citizen of the world. Please feel proud in this.
With Compassion,
Steven Cohn
Skokie
Tombol
Hello,
You don't know me, but a friend of Tombols informed our web community as to what happened, and I'd just like to extend my condolences.
Bret C.
You don't know me, but a friend of Tombols informed our web community as to what happened, and I'd just like to extend my condolences.
Bret C.
Tombol
I met Tombol through mutual friends back in Kenwood. I noticed immeadiately he had an aura of kindness around him. We saw each other once more last year through his best friend, we could not shut up about old days in high school.He will be missed very much he was one of the people that defined Chicago in my eyes. I wish strength and comfort for his family, know that he is safe now!
Gone 2 soon but never 4gotten
R.I.P Tombol
see you when I get there
Justin K.
Gone 2 soon but never 4gotten
R.I.P Tombol
see you when I get there
Justin K.
My Deepest Sympathy
Dear Samil and Malik Family,
My heart is very heavy with sadness for your great loss. Although words cannot take away your pain, please know you are in my thoughts and being lifted up in prayer. I pray God's peace and comfort be with you.
Love,
Shana Pearson
Kenwood Academy Class of '95
University of Illinois, Champaign-Urbana Class of '99
My heart is very heavy with sadness for your great loss. Although words cannot take away your pain, please know you are in my thoughts and being lifted up in prayer. I pray God's peace and comfort be with you.
Love,
Shana Pearson
Kenwood Academy Class of '95
University of Illinois, Champaign-Urbana Class of '99
R.I.P. Tombol
Many things that happen in life seem unreal and totally unexplainable. Unfortunately, the world can be a very ugly and scary place at times. To the Malik family, I would just like to emphasize that Tombol represented the opposite part of the world. He was an exemplary young person and someone who served as a symbol for how young men should be in the world today. He was very kind, compassionate, and loved to laugh and have fun. He was the type of person that people wanted to be around. Since I first met him at Ray school all the way through the last time I saw him this past February, I never once had anything negative to say about him or saw him act in anything but a positive manner. Though we were not the closest of friends, I always knew that Tombol was a unique individual and a shining example for his friends and those around him. In the difficult time to come, I hope that the Malik family finds solace and peace in knowing that though Tombol was taken from you far too soon, the impact he made on those that knew him can never be taken away and will never be forgotten. My mother and I extend our most heartfelt condolences.
-Adam D
-Adam D
Tombol
We will miss you...
Tombol always made me smile whenever I saw him because he had the type of personality that just radiated throughout the room. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Love,
Afshin Shiraz
Tombol always made me smile whenever I saw him because he had the type of personality that just radiated throughout the room. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Love,
Afshin Shiraz
In memory of Tombol
This is a poem I have taken some comfort in. My most heartfelt sympathies go out to your family.
Aviana Bowie
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The Peace of Wild Things
When despair for the world grows in me and I wake in the night at the least soundin fear of what my life and my children's lives may be, I go and lie down where the wood drake rests in his beauty on the water, and the great heron feeds. I come into the peace of wild things who do not tax their lives with forethought of grief. I come into the presence of still water. And I feel above me the day-blind stars waiting with their light. For a time I rest in the grace of the world, and am free.
— Wendell Berry
Aviana Bowie
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The Peace of Wild Things
When despair for the world grows in me and I wake in the night at the least soundin fear of what my life and my children's lives may be, I go and lie down where the wood drake rests in his beauty on the water, and the great heron feeds. I come into the peace of wild things who do not tax their lives with forethought of grief. I come into the presence of still water. And I feel above me the day-blind stars waiting with their light. For a time I rest in the grace of the world, and am free.
— Wendell Berry
Deepest Condolences
Dear Malik Family,
I don't know you nor did I know Tombol, but I was deeply moved upon reading and seeing news reports of this tragedy. I can't say I know what you are going through, but my heart and prayers truly go out to you. Tears alone don't express it, but I am grieving for you and the world to have lost a good, kind-hearted individual such as your son and brother. My 23-year old sister and I are very close, and it sounds like we share a similar relationship as your family and Tombol. You have my sincerest sympathies and prayers...Chicago is hurting with you.
Henry Heisler
I don't know you nor did I know Tombol, but I was deeply moved upon reading and seeing news reports of this tragedy. I can't say I know what you are going through, but my heart and prayers truly go out to you. Tears alone don't express it, but I am grieving for you and the world to have lost a good, kind-hearted individual such as your son and brother. My 23-year old sister and I are very close, and it sounds like we share a similar relationship as your family and Tombol. You have my sincerest sympathies and prayers...Chicago is hurting with you.
Henry Heisler
Sympathies
We don't know each other, but I wanted to extend my deepest sympathies to your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Matt S.
Matt S.
Tombol
Tombol was one of the kindest, most considerate people I have ever known. When I first met him, I was instantly drawn to his humor and his quick smile. We used to talk politics and family and he even tried to educate me on music... once. He always spoke so warmly about his family, he made it clear that you were his foundation. Thank you for sharing such a wonderful human being with all of us. I hope that you can take some comfort in the knowledge that he will never be forgotten. Forgive another cliché, but to know Tombol was to love him.
Peace be with all of you.
Virginia Anderson
Peace be with all of you.
Virginia Anderson
A special man
To the Malik family,
I had the privilege of first getting to know Tombol as a co-worker at the Park Grill, and ultimately as a friend. Talking with him, we both were interested in photography, travel and everything in between. His curiosity and drive for knowledge was amazing. He strove to succeed and honestly, nothing stood in his way. I am going to miss his laughter the most. He was, is, a special person that will ALWAYS have a place in my heart. I thank all of you for having given the rest of the world a chance to get to have known him. My prayers are with you.
Eileen Black
I had the privilege of first getting to know Tombol as a co-worker at the Park Grill, and ultimately as a friend. Talking with him, we both were interested in photography, travel and everything in between. His curiosity and drive for knowledge was amazing. He strove to succeed and honestly, nothing stood in his way. I am going to miss his laughter the most. He was, is, a special person that will ALWAYS have a place in my heart. I thank all of you for having given the rest of the world a chance to get to have known him. My prayers are with you.
Eileen Black
Tuesday, July 12, 2005
WEDNESDAY 8PM, JULY 13TH
TO ALL THOSE WHO LOVED TOMBOL, FAMILY, FRIENDS AND CONCERNED PEOPLE WHO WANT TO SPEAK OUT AGAINST BOND BEING SET FOR HIS TWO ATTACKERS PLEASE JOIN US AT:
1535 S. SANGAMON (AT THE END OF THE CUL-DE-SAC) 8PM, WEDNEDSDAY,
JULY 13TH
Chicago Sun-Times Article
PLEASE BRING SIGNS, CANDLES, AND ANYTHING YOU THINK WILL HELP EXPRESS OUR DISTRESS
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Tombol-my student
To the Malik family,
I am greatly sorry for your loss. I had Tombol as a student at Kenwood Academy. He was everything an exceptional student should be: bright, good-natured, a contagious smile and a sense of humor, well-behaved and he could articulate his thoughts. I don't know why bad things happen to good people, but I do know that I can celebrate his life.
May God bless your family with comfort and peace.
Paul Brush
I am greatly sorry for your loss. I had Tombol as a student at Kenwood Academy. He was everything an exceptional student should be: bright, good-natured, a contagious smile and a sense of humor, well-behaved and he could articulate his thoughts. I don't know why bad things happen to good people, but I do know that I can celebrate his life.
May God bless your family with comfort and peace.
Paul Brush
Tombol
Dear Malik Family,
Amid all the terrible stories on the news – Iraq, London, Africa, Afghanistan – the tragic story of Tombol’s death and your loss leapt out and broke my heart. In truth, violence is never “global”: It happens to one person at a time. I’m so very sorry for your sorrow and pain. I pray that someday there will come a time when the joy you have in remembering Tombol will overcome the pain of his loss. May God be with you.
Grayson VC
Amid all the terrible stories on the news – Iraq, London, Africa, Afghanistan – the tragic story of Tombol’s death and your loss leapt out and broke my heart. In truth, violence is never “global”: It happens to one person at a time. I’m so very sorry for your sorrow and pain. I pray that someday there will come a time when the joy you have in remembering Tombol will overcome the pain of his loss. May God be with you.
Grayson VC
Our Life With Tombol
I met Tombol very recently just a couple of times, but he left a lasting impression on me. It was very fun and easy to talk to him, I just remember a tall, handsome, smiling sweet guy. My heart goes out to his family and friends, I can see what a great loss he will be for many.
Tina Shah
Tina Shah
Tombol
Dear Malik Family,
I am very sorry for your loss. I heard from Winston and Ed on Sunday. I know Sati, of course, from back in the day, but I remember Tombol from around the neighborhood and from seeing him play basketball a couple of times some years ago at the U of C Field House. I know few words can be consoling at this time, but I simply wanted you to know that my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Best Wishes,
Gabe
I am very sorry for your loss. I heard from Winston and Ed on Sunday. I know Sati, of course, from back in the day, but I remember Tombol from around the neighborhood and from seeing him play basketball a couple of times some years ago at the U of C Field House. I know few words can be consoling at this time, but I simply wanted you to know that my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Best Wishes,
Gabe
My Condolences
My Name is Alesea. I attended both Kenwood and UIC with Tombol. Words can't express the hurt and sorrow that I feel. Tombol was a smart, amazing, and unique individual with a smile like no other that no one will ever forget. It was always a pleasure to be in his presence. Tombol ... You were an angel in disguise and will truly be missed but never forgotten! May justice prevail and peace be with your family.
to Samil and Family
Samil & Family -
You, mehb, amir, and all the other guys have always been like brothers to me at U of IL - guys that i wouldn't have to see or hear from everyday to know that i am close with... I can't imagine the pain you must be experiencing with the loss of a brother, friend, and companion at such a young age... but i would like to send my condolences to you and your family at this very difficult time.
I remember having met your brother when you lived down there and within minutes i felt as comfortable with him as I did with you the day i met you...it is a senseless tragedy and I send my prayers to you and your family during this difficult and trying time.
Regards,
Terrence M.
You, mehb, amir, and all the other guys have always been like brothers to me at U of IL - guys that i wouldn't have to see or hear from everyday to know that i am close with... I can't imagine the pain you must be experiencing with the loss of a brother, friend, and companion at such a young age... but i would like to send my condolences to you and your family at this very difficult time.
I remember having met your brother when you lived down there and within minutes i felt as comfortable with him as I did with you the day i met you...it is a senseless tragedy and I send my prayers to you and your family during this difficult and trying time.
Regards,
Terrence M.
Remembering Tombol
To the Malik family,
Please accept our deepest and heartfelt condolences. We can barely begin to imagine the shock and sorrow you must be feeling. We want you to know that Tombol will always be remembered by those who knew him. The memory we choose to hold in our mindseye is the image of a skinny smiling boy whose warmth was palpable and endearingly genuine. The joy of the seemingly inseparable friends, Tombol and Anthony, whose laughter filled the Drexel alley will always ring in our hearts.
With deep sympathy from your former neighbors.
The Shaw Family
Please accept our deepest and heartfelt condolences. We can barely begin to imagine the shock and sorrow you must be feeling. We want you to know that Tombol will always be remembered by those who knew him. The memory we choose to hold in our mindseye is the image of a skinny smiling boy whose warmth was palpable and endearingly genuine. The joy of the seemingly inseparable friends, Tombol and Anthony, whose laughter filled the Drexel alley will always ring in our hearts.
With deep sympathy from your former neighbors.
The Shaw Family
I'm very sorry for your loss
Dear Malik Family,
Tombol and I were in German II together last fall at UIC and I loved his company. Joking around with him, although not all that productive, was the best way to keep our heavy eyelids open in the not-so-early morning hours.
We had a great conversation on the train ride home on the last day of class. We both had somewhat rocky semesters, but his attitude was still so encouraging. He was willing and even excited to move on, looking forward to some time abroad as his greatest motivation to plow through his last years in school. He had such a glow about him, it was hard not to follow suit.
Tombol was a wonderful person and he will truly be missed. My deepest condolences to you.
Sincerely,
Christine Beggan
Tombol and I were in German II together last fall at UIC and I loved his company. Joking around with him, although not all that productive, was the best way to keep our heavy eyelids open in the not-so-early morning hours.
We had a great conversation on the train ride home on the last day of class. We both had somewhat rocky semesters, but his attitude was still so encouraging. He was willing and even excited to move on, looking forward to some time abroad as his greatest motivation to plow through his last years in school. He had such a glow about him, it was hard not to follow suit.
Tombol was a wonderful person and he will truly be missed. My deepest condolences to you.
Sincerely,
Christine Beggan
Tombol..
After such a senseless loss, we are haunted by things we can’t understand and look for answers that might never come. May time help you find solace in memories that bring peace and fill your hearts with pride. We are all privileged for having had the opportunity to be connected to someone as wonderful as Tombol. When you need to borrow a little brother, I’ll share mine.
With deepest sympathy,
Kala S
With deepest sympathy,
Kala S
My prayers
I personally did not know Tombol but I went to college with his sister Shiera. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Bhavana T
Bhavana T
Tombol
As a mother, a sister and a person I am so sorry for your loss. I don't know your family and I never knew Tombol - but I am a parent that has lost a child and I am one of 15 siblings that has lost a brother to an act of random violence and I know and understand your pain. Nothing I can say will make your pain go away - just know that I and my whole family are deeply sorry for your family. Our hearts break for you and our tears flow for you. We wish you Peace.
The Perkins Family
The Perkins Family
to the family of Malik
Hi my name is Gloria Vega, I live in Texas. I was reading the news in nbc5 and I read the story. Tears just filled my eyes. I am so sorry for what happened. Justice will be serve. I know this must be painful but just remember he is in a better place. I don’t know your family but my prayers and thoughts will be with you and your family. I am 21 years old and have a twin brother and I know that if something like that would happen I wouldn’t be able to survive. You have a person that cares deeply here in Texas. God Bless you and your family. Again my prayers are with your family.
Sincerely,
Gloria D. Vega
Sincerely,
Gloria D. Vega
sympathies
Dear family,
I am very sorry for you loss of your son and brother.
May God be w/you in this time of sorrow.
Regards, RK
I am very sorry for you loss of your son and brother.
May God be w/you in this time of sorrow.
Regards, RK
Tombol Malik
The Malik Family,
Ever since Tombol and I began to trade computer games in grade school I realized that he was a very warm, calm, and funny person unlike most any that I knew. I was jealous how he always seemed so relaxed and happy whenever I saw him. I would like to thank him deeply for welcoming me to Ray School and for continuing to be my friend ever since. I would also like to thank you for providing me with a great friend of his caliber. You have the right to be truly proud of your son, he was an extraordinary person who now lives through the model he has set for everyone he has known. I extend my deepest respect and sympathy towards your family and friends; Tombol is most certainly missed.
In dynamic peace,
Bernie R
Ever since Tombol and I began to trade computer games in grade school I realized that he was a very warm, calm, and funny person unlike most any that I knew. I was jealous how he always seemed so relaxed and happy whenever I saw him. I would like to thank him deeply for welcoming me to Ray School and for continuing to be my friend ever since. I would also like to thank you for providing me with a great friend of his caliber. You have the right to be truly proud of your son, he was an extraordinary person who now lives through the model he has set for everyone he has known. I extend my deepest respect and sympathy towards your family and friends; Tombol is most certainly missed.
In dynamic peace,
Bernie R
Remembering Tombol
My name is Kelli Ward and I went to high school with Tombol at Kenwood and I wanted to send my condolences to his family.
Tombol was an amazing person and a great friend. He was always willing to lend a helping hand when he could and was a truly genuine person. I will always remember Tombol for his sense of humor, his love for music, and his ability to befriend any and everyone.
Tombol will always be remembered.
Tombol was an amazing person and a great friend. He was always willing to lend a helping hand when he could and was a truly genuine person. I will always remember Tombol for his sense of humor, his love for music, and his ability to befriend any and everyone.
Tombol will always be remembered.
Tombol
I am very sorry to hear the terrible news. I remember Tombol coming up to U of I to visit Samil and playing Twisted Metal 2 with me. RIP.
Robin
Robin
Tombol -
I read about this terrible tragedy in the RedEye on Monday morning and did not make an immediate connection with Tombol's name. It wasn't until seeing his photo in the Sun Times yesterday that I recognized Tombol as someone I worked with at Banana Republic for about 1 1/2 years. I'm very saddened and shocked by what happened to him. Things like this shouldn't happen to anyone in the world. I remember Tombol just as everyone has described him, very kind and considerate, soft-spoken, and generally just a very happy person. He and I used to joke often that a certain green military hat of his made him look like Fidel Castro, and he always seemed to think that was really funny. I am so sorry for the loss to your family, and my thoughts are with you.
Sincerely,
Michael G.
Sincerely,
Michael G.
Condolences
Dear Malik Family,
We do not know each other, but after reading the story on NBC5.com, I just want to extend condolences from my family to your family at this time of your sad, sad loss.
Blessings to you and your loved ones,
Shawn
We do not know each other, but after reading the story on NBC5.com, I just want to extend condolences from my family to your family at this time of your sad, sad loss.
Blessings to you and your loved ones,
Shawn
My Deepest Sympathy
Dear Malik Family,
I would like to send my deepest sympathy to you.
I pray for your family and that there be justice.
May Tombol rest in peace
God Bless
Love From Detroit
Yatisha
I would like to send my deepest sympathy to you.
I pray for your family and that there be justice.
May Tombol rest in peace
God Bless
Love From Detroit
Yatisha
Greetings,
I did not know Tombol at all, but have been very moved by his story. I have also lost family members at a young age and wanted your family to know that there are people keeping you and Tombol in their thoughts today. You have my condolences and my prayers that justice will be served in Tombol's tragic passing.
All my best to you,
Dan F.
Chicago, IL
All my best to you,
Dan F.
Chicago, IL
Condolences
My name is Ms. Lynda Parker and I was Tombol's Geometry teacher at Kenwood Academy. I have been in a state of shock and simple devastated since I heard Tombol's name on the Sunday evening news. Tombol was a fantanstic person and wonderful young man. My prayers are with your family as you try to sort through this senseless act of violence.
Ms. Parker
Ms. Parker
tombol
Tombol was my student at Kenwood. I remember him well, always gentle, kind, and quiet. Yes, it is true; we all affect each other somehow and forever. The world is truly upsidedown and will suffer for his loss. God bless Tombol. God bless you all.
Kathleen Banks
Kathleen Banks
Too good for the World....
To the Malik Family,
My name is Vernon Harvey. Tombol and I attended Kenwood academy with each other. I' ve known since my Junior year. We also shared a couple of classes together. One comes to mind, a Piano Class. He was a horrible pianist. He hated the class. But, the class loved him. He had a smile that would lite up the night. He was funny too. He was just the coolest, most gentle and laid back person I' ve known. He wouldn't hurt a fly. People like him stand out.And he did.I recall him and I crossing paths about two years ago, he still had a smile of Gold upon his face. To think someone who would afflict pain upon such a caring and loving soul saddens me. He was always willing to help people. From the bottom of my heart I'm sorry for your lost. I can tell by his mannerism, you guys did a damn good job in raising him. The world longs for more Tombol Maliks'. The class of 2001 will never forget him. I will never forget him. For I know he's where no one can hurt him now. I know he's smiling in heaven looking down on you guys. From my heart to yours' GOD BLESS YOU AND TOMBOL'S SOUL........................
LOVE HIS FRIEND, VERNON
My name is Vernon Harvey. Tombol and I attended Kenwood academy with each other. I' ve known since my Junior year. We also shared a couple of classes together. One comes to mind, a Piano Class. He was a horrible pianist. He hated the class. But, the class loved him. He had a smile that would lite up the night. He was funny too. He was just the coolest, most gentle and laid back person I' ve known. He wouldn't hurt a fly. People like him stand out.And he did.I recall him and I crossing paths about two years ago, he still had a smile of Gold upon his face. To think someone who would afflict pain upon such a caring and loving soul saddens me. He was always willing to help people. From the bottom of my heart I'm sorry for your lost. I can tell by his mannerism, you guys did a damn good job in raising him. The world longs for more Tombol Maliks'. The class of 2001 will never forget him. I will never forget him. For I know he's where no one can hurt him now. I know he's smiling in heaven looking down on you guys. From my heart to yours' GOD BLESS YOU AND TOMBOL'S SOUL........................
LOVE HIS FRIEND, VERNON
my sympathies to your family
It's hard to find the words to express my sympathy. I can't begin to imagine what you must be going through. I hope to believe there is more good in the world, than bad, but there is no excuse for violence. I am so very, very sorry.
My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Stephanie
My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Stephanie
Tombol
Hello. You don't know me but I saw your family on the news and I wanted to let you know that my prayers and thoughts are with you right now. I hope Tombol is in a kinder place right now where he will always have joy and never suffer more pain. I wish your family all the best and I sincerely hope you can get some comfort knowing that people care. Judi
I'm sorry
My name is Mike Valha, I am a chicago resident. I watched the coverage on channel 5 news this evening and tears were running down my face. I am so so sorry for your loss, and I didn't even know your family member. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this terribly painful time. Please know that there are good people in this world, and that many of us mourn your loss this evening. Again, my prayers are with you this evening.
Sincerely,
Michael Valha
Sincerely,
Michael Valha
Im deeply sorry for the loss
I did not know Tombol well, But what I knew of him he IS an incredible young man. For the parents, Im deeply sorry for youre great loss, you have raised an incredible son, and he WILL always continue to shine to everyones life he has touched.
Scott
Scott
Dear Malik family,
My name is Andrea Frandria and I am from Palos Hills, IL. I heard about the tragedy that happened to your brother and my prayers are with you all. When I first head of the awful news.. I turned to my Mom and Dad and said.."That poor family." I am 29 years old and I have a 35 year old brother and could not imagine what it would be like to loose him. Please know that my family is praying for your family and we will light a candle in honor of Tomboloni.
God Bless!
Andrea Frandria
God Bless!
Andrea Frandria
Tombol,
I can't remember a single time when we talked one of us weren't laughing. RIP Tombol..
Naveen
Naveen
Tombol,
You are the little brother that I never had. You always made me smile, laugh, and made me forget about the stress in my life. Knowing you and being close to you the past few years has been a joy. You are truly the most amazing and charismatic person that I have ever met... and you will ALWAYS be loved. Love, aliya.
Monday, July 11, 2005
Tomboloni--
You would laugh at the cliche but you were always and you will always be the sunshine of our lives. Your space will never be filled. We love you forever.
--Shiera, Sati, Samil, Mama and Daddy
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