Dear Malik Family,
Tombol was an easy child to love, with quick smile and sweet nature that everyone has spoken of. We only knew Tombol as a child, a friend and classmate of our son, Nathaniel. Reading all the messages showed that he remained the loving person he was as a child. We are saddened to think of his years as an adult that we missed and sadder still about all those years ahead without him. We cried with the rest of the community that knew Tombol. We grieve with you and hope that the knowledge of all those who loved Tombol will be of some comfort.
Nancy Schwartz and Tom Granatir
Sunday, July 31, 2005
Saturday, July 30, 2005
I am so sorry for your loss!
Dear Malik Family,
I have only heard the news today, being on the road a lot I miss all the important news. I knew Tombol for a short time, when I worked with him at Café Florian. I’m not sure if he ever mentioned this but I tried to teach him how to drive and unfortunately I tried teaching him in my car. Let’s just say my passenger headlight was not to happy with him. I have only known Tombol for a short time but many fond memories of him. Every time that the two of us worked together he was all smiles, from ear to ear. He is such a happy person and brings light and brightness to all around him. I am shocked that anyone would do this to him or to anyone. Have faith and my prayers and love go to you all.
Megumi Nozaki
I have only heard the news today, being on the road a lot I miss all the important news. I knew Tombol for a short time, when I worked with him at Café Florian. I’m not sure if he ever mentioned this but I tried to teach him how to drive and unfortunately I tried teaching him in my car. Let’s just say my passenger headlight was not to happy with him. I have only known Tombol for a short time but many fond memories of him. Every time that the two of us worked together he was all smiles, from ear to ear. He is such a happy person and brings light and brightness to all around him. I am shocked that anyone would do this to him or to anyone. Have faith and my prayers and love go to you all.
Megumi Nozaki
Deepest sympathy
Dear Malik family,
I remember your family from ray school and kenwood, i'm not sure you'd remember me, other than by face. When I first read about what happened i was trying to figure out if i knew tombol or not because the article said he went to kenwood and grew up in hyde park, well everyone knows everyone in hyde park! but then it clicked today when i read in the newspaper about the court hearing. i automatically remembered who the family was. i'm so so sorry about what happened to tombol and my heart goes out to the family. my younger brother is a couple years older than tombol was and also went to ray school, kenwood and UIC, and ironically, my brother looks very similar to tombol. when i looked at his website it almost brought tears to my eyes because i instantly thought, it's like it were my brother. growing up in hyde park as we all did, you can't help but feel connected to everyone even if you don't interact with them. hyde park is such a great community and filled with great people, unfortunately, it lost a great person. i didn't have to know him personally to know that, but just looking at the pictures explains it all. again, my deepest sympathy goes out to you and may your higher power bless you and get you through this time. in the end,those who committed this crime against tombol shall not prosper.
many blessings,
rhonda wormack-khan
"my children teach me everything i need to know about life, and they have made me a better person"
-rhonda RN, BSN
I remember your family from ray school and kenwood, i'm not sure you'd remember me, other than by face. When I first read about what happened i was trying to figure out if i knew tombol or not because the article said he went to kenwood and grew up in hyde park, well everyone knows everyone in hyde park! but then it clicked today when i read in the newspaper about the court hearing. i automatically remembered who the family was. i'm so so sorry about what happened to tombol and my heart goes out to the family. my younger brother is a couple years older than tombol was and also went to ray school, kenwood and UIC, and ironically, my brother looks very similar to tombol. when i looked at his website it almost brought tears to my eyes because i instantly thought, it's like it were my brother. growing up in hyde park as we all did, you can't help but feel connected to everyone even if you don't interact with them. hyde park is such a great community and filled with great people, unfortunately, it lost a great person. i didn't have to know him personally to know that, but just looking at the pictures explains it all. again, my deepest sympathy goes out to you and may your higher power bless you and get you through this time. in the end,those who committed this crime against tombol shall not prosper.
many blessings,
rhonda wormack-khan
"my children teach me everything i need to know about life, and they have made me a better person"
-rhonda RN, BSN
I've Been Waiting...
To the Malik Family,
I'm a friend of Samil's from UIUC. I've been procrastinating writing this. I'm not sure why. Maybe because I knew that by writing this I would be accepting that this tragedy has happened and saying my goodbye to Tombol.
I had the pleasure of meeting Tombol a number of times when he used to visit his Samil in college and also after college when I used to come to Chicago. I've been reading all the letters and they all are so accurate. He was just such a GOOD PURE person. Of course, he was always smiling. The one thing that stood out to me about Tombol, was his RESPECT towards others. From the first time we met, I could see the love and respect he had for his big brother. He looked up to Samil, and I could tell just by the way they acted around each other. Tombol showed me that same respect from the moment we meet. He was always well-mannered and treated Samil's friends as his own. I really appreciated him. I remember an evening a few years ago when I was in Chicago. A large group of us including the Malik brothers were hanging out and enjoying a night in Chicago. It was actually the first I met Sati. Everyone was happy to see him. He was so energetic and full of life. Tombol was everyone's kid brother.
I wish I could say understand what you're feeling, but I can't. No one should have to go through what your family is enduring. You all are in my prayers. My deepest condolences. The focus of thoughts and prayers will also be to catch and convict those responsible for taking Tombol away from us.
I hope these few simple words will help you get through this.
Sunjay Tuli
I'm a friend of Samil's from UIUC. I've been procrastinating writing this. I'm not sure why. Maybe because I knew that by writing this I would be accepting that this tragedy has happened and saying my goodbye to Tombol.
I had the pleasure of meeting Tombol a number of times when he used to visit his Samil in college and also after college when I used to come to Chicago. I've been reading all the letters and they all are so accurate. He was just such a GOOD PURE person. Of course, he was always smiling. The one thing that stood out to me about Tombol, was his RESPECT towards others. From the first time we met, I could see the love and respect he had for his big brother. He looked up to Samil, and I could tell just by the way they acted around each other. Tombol showed me that same respect from the moment we meet. He was always well-mannered and treated Samil's friends as his own. I really appreciated him. I remember an evening a few years ago when I was in Chicago. A large group of us including the Malik brothers were hanging out and enjoying a night in Chicago. It was actually the first I met Sati. Everyone was happy to see him. He was so energetic and full of life. Tombol was everyone's kid brother.
I wish I could say understand what you're feeling, but I can't. No one should have to go through what your family is enduring. You all are in my prayers. My deepest condolences. The focus of thoughts and prayers will also be to catch and convict those responsible for taking Tombol away from us.
I hope these few simple words will help you get through this.
Sunjay Tuli
My deepest condolences...
Samil and family -
I was shocked beyond belief when I heard of this terrible news. I only met Tombol once or twice, but I remember that he seemed like a very happy guy. Samil, given that he's your brother, I can only imagine what joy and fun he must have brought to his circle of friends and family. Having been through loss before, all I can tell you is that your family and closest friends will continue to love and support you through this difficult time. Don't feel bad if you feel like laughing about something - ever - because by doing so you are honoring the memory of your brother. My heart goes out to you and I hope sincerely that justice, peace, and strength in unity find you and your family.
Raj
I was shocked beyond belief when I heard of this terrible news. I only met Tombol once or twice, but I remember that he seemed like a very happy guy. Samil, given that he's your brother, I can only imagine what joy and fun he must have brought to his circle of friends and family. Having been through loss before, all I can tell you is that your family and closest friends will continue to love and support you through this difficult time. Don't feel bad if you feel like laughing about something - ever - because by doing so you are honoring the memory of your brother. My heart goes out to you and I hope sincerely that justice, peace, and strength in unity find you and your family.
Raj
He had an amazing presence
Tombol,
This small world brought me to meet you in January of this year. Our encounters were brief. It was enough time though to be graced by your warm and friendly presence. We shared laughter and pizza. I am saddened that the busy pace of life has delayed me in learning of your family's great loss, it is not until today that I was made aware of this tragedy. Thus I am late in sharing how I appreciate the beautiful person you were-even to someone who didn't know you for very long. It is obvious to the world now you will live on through the great love and admiration your family and friends share for you.
With great respect and sympathy for your family, I mourn with them for they have endured the loss of an amazing son and brother. Thank you to his family for sharing such a wonderful man with the world.
Rest peacefully Tombol.
With love, peace, and condolences,
Cristina Silva
Chicago, IL.
This small world brought me to meet you in January of this year. Our encounters were brief. It was enough time though to be graced by your warm and friendly presence. We shared laughter and pizza. I am saddened that the busy pace of life has delayed me in learning of your family's great loss, it is not until today that I was made aware of this tragedy. Thus I am late in sharing how I appreciate the beautiful person you were-even to someone who didn't know you for very long. It is obvious to the world now you will live on through the great love and admiration your family and friends share for you.
With great respect and sympathy for your family, I mourn with them for they have endured the loss of an amazing son and brother. Thank you to his family for sharing such a wonderful man with the world.
Rest peacefully Tombol.
With love, peace, and condolences,
Cristina Silva
Chicago, IL.
Rest In Peace Tombol
My condolences and wishes for recovery for the family and extended family of the dearly departed. I went to Ray with Tombol, and had many classes with him growing up. I remember seeing him grow up. And though we werent really good friends in school, I still felt close to him. Through the years, I've had the opportunity to get to know a lot of the people that I went to school with, years later. Unfortunately, Tombol was not one of them, even though I live less than a block from where he used to work at Florian and it hurts to know that now I won't get the chance to really know him. Still, to see and hear how many did know and Love him is a testament to the greatness he was able to achieve in his short time with us, and I believe that the Love and support that people have, and continue to show to him will carry through to the next life. Tombol, may you Rest In Peace, and continue to shine upon us from above.
Love
-Matthew Arnett
Love
-Matthew Arnett
Thoughts from Eric Stern (Ray '91)
To the Malik family,
My name is Eric Stern, son of Mr. Stern, and I attended Ray School with Samil. Naturally, I refused to acknowledge that the face on the television screen was that which I had known years before. The last memory I have of Tombol is waiting for him to get out of class with his older brother Samil, Dameon M., and myself. He started laughing when he saw us, and hurried down the stairs. When he reached the ground floor, I grabbed him by his forehead as his arms tried to reach my body. The laughter never seemed to end. Upon hearing and reading everyone's accounts of the kid he was, and the man he grew to be, I was overwhelmed to see that he'd not lost that of his character which was most endearing and honorable. My heart goes out to all the Malik family and friends.
Eric Stern
My name is Eric Stern, son of Mr. Stern, and I attended Ray School with Samil. Naturally, I refused to acknowledge that the face on the television screen was that which I had known years before. The last memory I have of Tombol is waiting for him to get out of class with his older brother Samil, Dameon M., and myself. He started laughing when he saw us, and hurried down the stairs. When he reached the ground floor, I grabbed him by his forehead as his arms tried to reach my body. The laughter never seemed to end. Upon hearing and reading everyone's accounts of the kid he was, and the man he grew to be, I was overwhelmed to see that he'd not lost that of his character which was most endearing and honorable. My heart goes out to all the Malik family and friends.
Eric Stern
Tombol
Dear Sati and family -
Sati only informed me earlier this week of what had happened, and I must say I'm still stunned and speechless. And furious. Though I can only imagine what you all are experiencing, please count me among the many who stand with you, if not in physical presence then in our hearts, offering comfort and consolation.
I turned to Julian Huxley (Sati knows why) to find him saying "Operationally, God is beginning to resemble not a ruler but the last fading smile of a cosmic Cheshire cat." Which is I guess what you'd expect from an atheistic evolutionary biologist. It certainly does fit the confusion I feel about all this. Of course, as soon as I start to wonder why, my thoughts go to - but he was such a good dancer! And I laugh at my memories of how woeful you Malik boys are on the dance floor, and how wonderful Tombol could be there. Such a sweet sweet boy - I was lucky to have met him.
with a heavy heart, and sending my love to you all,
Lauren
Lauren E. Brown
Ph.D. Candidate
Harvard University
Department of History
Robinson Hall
Cambridge, MA 02138
lebrown@fas.harvard.edu
Sati only informed me earlier this week of what had happened, and I must say I'm still stunned and speechless. And furious. Though I can only imagine what you all are experiencing, please count me among the many who stand with you, if not in physical presence then in our hearts, offering comfort and consolation.
I turned to Julian Huxley (Sati knows why) to find him saying "Operationally, God is beginning to resemble not a ruler but the last fading smile of a cosmic Cheshire cat." Which is I guess what you'd expect from an atheistic evolutionary biologist. It certainly does fit the confusion I feel about all this. Of course, as soon as I start to wonder why, my thoughts go to - but he was such a good dancer! And I laugh at my memories of how woeful you Malik boys are on the dance floor, and how wonderful Tombol could be there. Such a sweet sweet boy - I was lucky to have met him.
with a heavy heart, and sending my love to you all,
Lauren
Lauren E. Brown
Ph.D. Candidate
Harvard University
Department of History
Robinson Hall
Cambridge, MA 02138
lebrown@fas.harvard.edu
Tombol
Dear Malik family,
My deepest condolences on your loss of Tombol. I had seen the news clip when this first happened but the sound on the television was turned down. I thought to myself, what a horrible thing to have happened, and what is wrong with people?--that someone could do such a brutal and vicious thing to another human being? The next day I read the news story at the Tribune online...and I saw Tombol's name. I was stunned, upset, and could not believe it. I met Tombol a little over a year ago when he was searching for an apartment in Chicago with his brother Samil. It only took several dealings with Tombol to see what a sweet and easy-going young man he was. It is incomprehensible to everyone I know how something like this happened. It's simply devastating. I cannot imagine what all of you are going through right now, and I am truly sorry for your loss.
My thoughts go out to all of you,
Renee Leung
My deepest condolences on your loss of Tombol. I had seen the news clip when this first happened but the sound on the television was turned down. I thought to myself, what a horrible thing to have happened, and what is wrong with people?--that someone could do such a brutal and vicious thing to another human being? The next day I read the news story at the Tribune online...and I saw Tombol's name. I was stunned, upset, and could not believe it. I met Tombol a little over a year ago when he was searching for an apartment in Chicago with his brother Samil. It only took several dealings with Tombol to see what a sweet and easy-going young man he was. It is incomprehensible to everyone I know how something like this happened. It's simply devastating. I cannot imagine what all of you are going through right now, and I am truly sorry for your loss.
My thoughts go out to all of you,
Renee Leung
Tombol
I am a friend of a friend of Shiera's, and I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. May peace, love, and hope blanket your hearts during this difficult time.
- Natalie
- Natalie
Infinite peace and blessings
My name is Ramon Norwood, I met Tombol probably my sophomore or Junior year at Kenwood Academy. I never became real close friends or anything with him, but I wish I did. I always thought that he was a cool, laid back guy, we spoke about hiphop music and breakdancing etc. I also remember him with the nice shoes and gear all the time, lol.
After I graduated Kenwood in 2000, I would see him off and on at various hiphop concerts around the city. The last time I saw him was last year, I believe and I don't know why I didn't take down his number to stay in touch :( anyway, to those who had the opportunity to be around him often, close friends, and family I would like to send much peace and positive energy as I can in that you heal over this tragedy. Tombol cannot be replaced and I do hope that those that participated
in this evilness, be handled accordingly.
I had not heard of this event till I arrived back in town this week, I saw the pictures of the protest/gathering from last Thursday and I want to say that it was a wonderful thing to see so many people show support and respect for Tombol, his family etc. I was in shock and still am over this.. I can't stop having visions of what went on based off of what I read about the tragedy. Stay strong and keep fighting. Rest in Peace.
Ramon Norwood (radius)
Kenwood Academy Class of 2000
--
Peace, Prosperity and Respect
After I graduated Kenwood in 2000, I would see him off and on at various hiphop concerts around the city. The last time I saw him was last year, I believe and I don't know why I didn't take down his number to stay in touch :( anyway, to those who had the opportunity to be around him often, close friends, and family I would like to send much peace and positive energy as I can in that you heal over this tragedy. Tombol cannot be replaced and I do hope that those that participated
in this evilness, be handled accordingly.
I had not heard of this event till I arrived back in town this week, I saw the pictures of the protest/gathering from last Thursday and I want to say that it was a wonderful thing to see so many people show support and respect for Tombol, his family etc. I was in shock and still am over this.. I can't stop having visions of what went on based off of what I read about the tragedy. Stay strong and keep fighting. Rest in Peace.
Ramon Norwood (radius)
Kenwood Academy Class of 2000
--
Peace, Prosperity and Respect
Wednesday, July 27, 2005
Tombol
Dear Shiera and family,
as you know, we never met your brother Tombol. But we just became acquainted with you in Germany and of course we are absolutly confounded about what happened to your brother and so also to the whole family. So my girlfriend Kerstin and I decided to write this letter of condolence. Please let us express, that we are very sorry about the death of Tombol. We are sure that nobody can imagine the suffering of a family that has lost a son and brother because of such a terrible event. But maybe it will help you to know, that many people are thinking about you. That so many people are with you.
Shiera, we hope to see you again soon. Perhaps in Aberdeen, maybe in Germany again. From this place we wish all the best to you and your family.
We are sad,
Kerstin Neuser & Axel Richter
as you know, we never met your brother Tombol. But we just became acquainted with you in Germany and of course we are absolutly confounded about what happened to your brother and so also to the whole family. So my girlfriend Kerstin and I decided to write this letter of condolence. Please let us express, that we are very sorry about the death of Tombol. We are sure that nobody can imagine the suffering of a family that has lost a son and brother because of such a terrible event. But maybe it will help you to know, that many people are thinking about you. That so many people are with you.
Shiera, we hope to see you again soon. Perhaps in Aberdeen, maybe in Germany again. From this place we wish all the best to you and your family.
We are sad,
Kerstin Neuser & Axel Richter
My thoughts to you
Tombol....
I met you last week even though I never heard your voice....shook your hand...or saw you face to face. It was an absolute pleasure to meet you and be a part of your life. I met you thru my friend Lana...of course I would of loved to have met you in Chicago ...but I didn't have to be there.... I am now able to see what you brought to life.
I know you bring the feelings that cannot be translated into words, poetry or songs.
You inspire and bring out of peple what we all posses
LOVE.........
And for that.....thank you.
You have made a difference....I admire you.
Myrna
I met you last week even though I never heard your voice....shook your hand...or saw you face to face. It was an absolute pleasure to meet you and be a part of your life. I met you thru my friend Lana...of course I would of loved to have met you in Chicago ...but I didn't have to be there.... I am now able to see what you brought to life.
I know you bring the feelings that cannot be translated into words, poetry or songs.
You inspire and bring out of peple what we all posses
LOVE.........
And for that.....thank you.
You have made a difference....I admire you.
Myrna
My sympathies
To the entire Malik family,
I just want to offer my sincerest sympathies in this most difficult time. I read the article regarding your beloved son/brother/friend Tombol and was just devastated. Words cannot express my horror & sorrow. I know (from personal experience) that you will get through this, and only time can heal the pain.
I have you in my prayers.
Sincerely,
Traci Davis
Huntington Beach, CA.
I just want to offer my sincerest sympathies in this most difficult time. I read the article regarding your beloved son/brother/friend Tombol and was just devastated. Words cannot express my horror & sorrow. I know (from personal experience) that you will get through this, and only time can heal the pain.
I have you in my prayers.
Sincerely,
Traci Davis
Huntington Beach, CA.
Condolences
Dear Shiera and family-
My deepest sorrow on your loss of a son, and brother. I knew Tombol as a little boy - watched a movie with his big sister in Hyde Park theater, and even a baseball game on Farmer's field. Because I too grew up and spent a long time in hyde park, I feel the interconnectedness of the community, and its pain and loss. May you find strength in solidarity and staying together.
All the best,
Stephan
My deepest sorrow on your loss of a son, and brother. I knew Tombol as a little boy - watched a movie with his big sister in Hyde Park theater, and even a baseball game on Farmer's field. Because I too grew up and spent a long time in hyde park, I feel the interconnectedness of the community, and its pain and loss. May you find strength in solidarity and staying together.
All the best,
Stephan
My deepest and sincerest condolences
Dear Samil and the Malik family,
I apologize for not writing sooner, but I just learned of the tragic event today. I've met Tombol a couple times through Samil, including most recently this past January. Eventhough I don't know him personally very well, I always remember his smile and his genuine love for life and for others. In a way his life touched everyone he encountered, even if he didn't realize it.
My thoughts and prayers go out to all of you.
Sam Skariah
I apologize for not writing sooner, but I just learned of the tragic event today. I've met Tombol a couple times through Samil, including most recently this past January. Eventhough I don't know him personally very well, I always remember his smile and his genuine love for life and for others. In a way his life touched everyone he encountered, even if he didn't realize it.
My thoughts and prayers go out to all of you.
Sam Skariah
Monday, July 25, 2005
In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to:
Human Resources Development Foundation (Anti-Violence Fund)
222 South Jefferson Street
Chicago, IL 60661
Care of: Evelyn Willis, CFO
*Please make sure that all donations are earmarked for the Tombol Malik Fund.
222 South Jefferson Street
Chicago, IL 60661
Care of: Evelyn Willis, CFO
*Please make sure that all donations are earmarked for the Tombol Malik Fund.
Saturday, July 23, 2005
Sympathy
Dear Shiera and Family,
I just found out what happened, I've been away in the US for travel. My deepest sympathies for your tragic loss.
Yours,
Ken
I just found out what happened, I've been away in the US for travel. My deepest sympathies for your tragic loss.
Yours,
Ken
Condolences
Shiera and Family:
Lisa let me know about your tragic loss. I am deeply saddened and sickened by the senselessness of Tombol's death. I took the opportunity to read some of the entries on your blog and am truly heartened to read about the impact Tombol made on so many lives in his short, short time on this earth. You have been in my thoughts and prayers and will continue to be.
Rebecca (Becky) Murphy
Lisa let me know about your tragic loss. I am deeply saddened and sickened by the senselessness of Tombol's death. I took the opportunity to read some of the entries on your blog and am truly heartened to read about the impact Tombol made on so many lives in his short, short time on this earth. You have been in my thoughts and prayers and will continue to be.
Rebecca (Becky) Murphy
Dear Shiera and Malik family
Dear Shiera and Malik family,
I'm on the other side of the world, in Australia, and feel so sad that I have not been there in Chicago during this terrible time to help give my condolences and share the sorrow in person. I never met Tombol, but I have had the privilege of meeting Shiera several times, and from what our dear friend Eve tells me he shared that same sense of vibrant intelligence and engagement with life that you, Shiera, have in such abundance. No words can describe the sense of outrage at this senseless tragedy. The only consolation is that we human beings have an amazing capacity to survive and recover if surrounded by love and compassion and friendship - and in this sense I know you are well blessed.
Love and peace,
Russell
I'm on the other side of the world, in Australia, and feel so sad that I have not been there in Chicago during this terrible time to help give my condolences and share the sorrow in person. I never met Tombol, but I have had the privilege of meeting Shiera several times, and from what our dear friend Eve tells me he shared that same sense of vibrant intelligence and engagement with life that you, Shiera, have in such abundance. No words can describe the sense of outrage at this senseless tragedy. The only consolation is that we human beings have an amazing capacity to survive and recover if surrounded by love and compassion and friendship - and in this sense I know you are well blessed.
Love and peace,
Russell
Prayers and Thanksgivings
To the Malik Family:
Yesterday at the Memorial, with you, we thanked God for the life of Tombol, your cherished son and your beloved brother. May he live on in all of our hearts. And may he rest in peace knowing what joy and wonder he brought to all who knew him. Thank you too, his family, for bringing Tombol to life and for guiding him through it within your circle of love. Now that he is within the arms of God, may we continue to stand with you in your sorrow and in your loss. Your strength and your courage as you brought us all together from many different worlds and faiths in memory of Tombol has shown us that God, by whatever name we call him, is the God of us all. May God be merciful and just. And may the Peace of God be with you.
Julie Less (Daniel Rogers’ Mom)
Yesterday at the Memorial, with you, we thanked God for the life of Tombol, your cherished son and your beloved brother. May he live on in all of our hearts. And may he rest in peace knowing what joy and wonder he brought to all who knew him. Thank you too, his family, for bringing Tombol to life and for guiding him through it within your circle of love. Now that he is within the arms of God, may we continue to stand with you in your sorrow and in your loss. Your strength and your courage as you brought us all together from many different worlds and faiths in memory of Tombol has shown us that God, by whatever name we call him, is the God of us all. May God be merciful and just. And may the Peace of God be with you.
Julie Less (Daniel Rogers’ Mom)
Tombol
Dear Malik Family:
I hope that time has started to soften the shock of Tombol's death, if only a little bit, and that in the future you will be able to enjoy the memory of his life with you more than you feel the pain of his loss. I'm sorry I was not able to be at his funeral. You should be proud that he was able to touch all the people who did come, and all the people who have sent the condolences posted on your website. Reading those, and reading the descriptions of him in various newspaper articles, I wish I had gotten to know him even better than I did. I thought he was a great guy, and obviously tons of people felt the same way, from those who knew him intimately to those who had met him only briefly. You should add that knowledge to all the memories you have of him, because your whole family obviously deserves some credit for the man he became, and was becoming.
I'll cut this short before it gets bogged down in a morass of cliches. I am thinking of you, and of Tombol.
-wta
I hope that time has started to soften the shock of Tombol's death, if only a little bit, and that in the future you will be able to enjoy the memory of his life with you more than you feel the pain of his loss. I'm sorry I was not able to be at his funeral. You should be proud that he was able to touch all the people who did come, and all the people who have sent the condolences posted on your website. Reading those, and reading the descriptions of him in various newspaper articles, I wish I had gotten to know him even better than I did. I thought he was a great guy, and obviously tons of people felt the same way, from those who knew him intimately to those who had met him only briefly. You should add that knowledge to all the memories you have of him, because your whole family obviously deserves some credit for the man he became, and was becoming.
I'll cut this short before it gets bogged down in a morass of cliches. I am thinking of you, and of Tombol.
-wta
My Deepest Condolences
To the Malik Family,
I would like to extend my deepest condolences to you. Since the moment I heard about this I just could not believe it. I graduated from Kenwood with Samil and I just want to say that I will keep your family in prayer during this very difficult time. Tombol's spirit will forever be a light of hope to everyone who knew him. My thoughts will remain with your family.
Valerie Moore
I would like to extend my deepest condolences to you. Since the moment I heard about this I just could not believe it. I graduated from Kenwood with Samil and I just want to say that I will keep your family in prayer during this very difficult time. Tombol's spirit will forever be a light of hope to everyone who knew him. My thoughts will remain with your family.
Valerie Moore
Tombol
To the Malik family,
I remember Tombol as a sweet little boy tagging along with Shiera and Samil years ago. I recall how close the Malik siblings were, always looking out for each other, especially their darling youngest brother.
This tragedy has touched me deeply from afar -- I can only imagine the great pain, anger and frustration your family is experiencing now. The tragedy and injustice are almost too much to comprehend. Please know that countless others are grieving with you in the loss of your baby brother and son. Tombol and your entire family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Lori Palfalvi
I remember Tombol as a sweet little boy tagging along with Shiera and Samil years ago. I recall how close the Malik siblings were, always looking out for each other, especially their darling youngest brother.
This tragedy has touched me deeply from afar -- I can only imagine the great pain, anger and frustration your family is experiencing now. The tragedy and injustice are almost too much to comprehend. Please know that countless others are grieving with you in the loss of your baby brother and son. Tombol and your entire family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Lori Palfalvi
Tombol
I’m so grateful for this forum to read and share stories about Tombol…to celebrate and venerate Tombol. It inspires me everyday; reading about how wonderful he was and how there were so many others who got to experience that.
I remember Tombol always appreciated what was different about me…he appreciated the idiosyncrasies/ quirks in people…their true selves... Not the facade/image of perfection people seem to need to display. Tombol appreciated “the individuality” of each individual. He would seek out what special thing each person had to offer…despite their faults. Most people don’t have that patience. But I think he needed to see the good in people.
If someone was in a bad mood, Tombol would take it upon himself to cheer the person up…whether that meant he would look like a complete idiot in the process. That didn’t matter. I remember laying my entire depressing story on the table the first day I met him and him not backing down. That wasn’t enough to scare him away. I think it actually endeared him to me, that I wasn’t afraid to appear human.
Whenever I meet someone new I google them, in an attempt to see what they've accomplished, or at least what the world has to acknowledge. I remember a few years ago I didn't find anything about Tombol. But I knew that someday that would change. He just had so much to say and could say it so well. He had a way of expressing himself that forced you to listen, maybe precisely because Tombol never forced it on you.
I've googled Tombol everyday for the past week. And what I've found now is what saddens me the most: His legacy (at least for the world who didn't ever meet him) is overshadowed by this tragedy. Now he’s the “Tragic UIC Student Who was……..” He had so much more to offer the world than being a victim. He'll never get the chance to bring his magnanimous dreams to fruition. He'll never get a chance to save the world...all the things I (genuinely) believe in time he would have done.
Tina P.
I remember Tombol always appreciated what was different about me…he appreciated the idiosyncrasies/ quirks in people…their true selves... Not the facade/image of perfection people seem to need to display. Tombol appreciated “the individuality” of each individual. He would seek out what special thing each person had to offer…despite their faults. Most people don’t have that patience. But I think he needed to see the good in people.
If someone was in a bad mood, Tombol would take it upon himself to cheer the person up…whether that meant he would look like a complete idiot in the process. That didn’t matter. I remember laying my entire depressing story on the table the first day I met him and him not backing down. That wasn’t enough to scare him away. I think it actually endeared him to me, that I wasn’t afraid to appear human.
Whenever I meet someone new I google them, in an attempt to see what they've accomplished, or at least what the world has to acknowledge. I remember a few years ago I didn't find anything about Tombol. But I knew that someday that would change. He just had so much to say and could say it so well. He had a way of expressing himself that forced you to listen, maybe precisely because Tombol never forced it on you.
I've googled Tombol everyday for the past week. And what I've found now is what saddens me the most: His legacy (at least for the world who didn't ever meet him) is overshadowed by this tragedy. Now he’s the “Tragic UIC Student Who was……..” He had so much more to offer the world than being a victim. He'll never get the chance to bring his magnanimous dreams to fruition. He'll never get a chance to save the world...all the things I (genuinely) believe in time he would have done.
Tina P.
Sorry for your loss
Dear Shiera and family,
I know words are of little comfort however, I am truly sorry for your loss. From reading the entries on the blog one can tell how much he was loved. Be strong.
Christian Rumple
I know words are of little comfort however, I am truly sorry for your loss. From reading the entries on the blog one can tell how much he was loved. Be strong.
Christian Rumple
Our Heartfelt Condolences...
Dear Shiera and Family,
We don't know where to begin to tell you how deeply saddened we were to learn of the tragic death of your beloved brother Tombol.
We send our deepest sympathy to you at this time. Shiera, it has always been clear how much you loved your brothers and your baby brother.
You are in our thoughts and prayers. We wish you peace.
With Love,
John, Brenda, Rebecca Murphy and family
We don't know where to begin to tell you how deeply saddened we were to learn of the tragic death of your beloved brother Tombol.
We send our deepest sympathy to you at this time. Shiera, it has always been clear how much you loved your brothers and your baby brother.
You are in our thoughts and prayers. We wish you peace.
With Love,
John, Brenda, Rebecca Murphy and family
Tombol
Dear Malik Family,
I, like many others, will hold you in my thoughts and prayers. I feel like I know you all, through the very special friendship my daughter had with Tombol. I attended the vigil with her, and I saw and heard how many lives he touched. I have read the beautiful comments of those who knew him, and those like myself, who feel they did. Tombol was a special young man who touched the lives of everyone he met. He will be missed, but not forgotten. Even those of us who didn't know him will carry a part of him with us as we continue his legacy of love and understanding. This loss is tragic and so unnecessary. I for one plan to live life as Tombol would have. I will be a better person because of him. Let friends and community members support you during this time of grief. We care.
Karen L
I, like many others, will hold you in my thoughts and prayers. I feel like I know you all, through the very special friendship my daughter had with Tombol. I attended the vigil with her, and I saw and heard how many lives he touched. I have read the beautiful comments of those who knew him, and those like myself, who feel they did. Tombol was a special young man who touched the lives of everyone he met. He will be missed, but not forgotten. Even those of us who didn't know him will carry a part of him with us as we continue his legacy of love and understanding. This loss is tragic and so unnecessary. I for one plan to live life as Tombol would have. I will be a better person because of him. Let friends and community members support you during this time of grief. We care.
Karen L
Thursday, July 21, 2005
My Deepest Condolences
To the Malik family,
I want to express my deepest condolences for your loss. I knew Mantis Matulis from Bradley University, and was sick to my stomach when I heard the news. This is a terrrible tragedy, and I will never forget Tombol as long as I live, even though I have never had the oppurtunity to meet him. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I am truly sorry for your loss.
Sincerely,
Dan Lewin
(Cleveland, Ohio)
I want to express my deepest condolences for your loss. I knew Mantis Matulis from Bradley University, and was sick to my stomach when I heard the news. This is a terrrible tragedy, and I will never forget Tombol as long as I live, even though I have never had the oppurtunity to meet him. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I am truly sorry for your loss.
Sincerely,
Dan Lewin
(Cleveland, Ohio)
Wednesday, July 20, 2005
Tombol
Shiera, Sati, Samil, Karen,
I've avoided the blog thinking maybe it's not true and maybe next time i visit chicago tombol would be even taller. i don't know what to say... he was beautiful and gentle and the most mature "kid" i ever knew. who didn't love that guy? who doesn't? i'm praying for you all every day and telling stories about him to everyone who will listen. anyone who knew him will never forget.
Sam and Sean
I've avoided the blog thinking maybe it's not true and maybe next time i visit chicago tombol would be even taller. i don't know what to say... he was beautiful and gentle and the most mature "kid" i ever knew. who didn't love that guy? who doesn't? i'm praying for you all every day and telling stories about him to everyone who will listen. anyone who knew him will never forget.
Sam and Sean
Tombol Malik
Dear members of the Malik family,
My name is Diane Hill. I attended highschool with Tombol but unfortunately I didn’t have the opportunity to get to know him personally. However, he stood out. Every time I saw Tombol all I noticed was a huge smile and his eyebrows. A lot of my friends were friends with Tombol and they speak highly of him.
I really wish I had all the right things to say to heal your pain. I can feel and see the pain in my friends and I can only imagine how you must be feeling at a time like this. I want to express my deepest condolences to you. And I would like you know that the Malik family is in our prayers.
Diane M. Hill
Kenwood Academy Class of 2000
My name is Diane Hill. I attended highschool with Tombol but unfortunately I didn’t have the opportunity to get to know him personally. However, he stood out. Every time I saw Tombol all I noticed was a huge smile and his eyebrows. A lot of my friends were friends with Tombol and they speak highly of him.
I really wish I had all the right things to say to heal your pain. I can feel and see the pain in my friends and I can only imagine how you must be feeling at a time like this. I want to express my deepest condolences to you. And I would like you know that the Malik family is in our prayers.
Diane M. Hill
Kenwood Academy Class of 2000
Sincerest and heartfelt condolences for Tombol
Dear Uncle Sharaf, Aunt Karen, Shiera, Sat, and Samil,
Since we heard about the tragic passing of our dear brother Tombol we have all been grief-stricken. All of you have been and remain in our thoughts and prayers and we are so relieved that all of you can finally be together. There are no words that can express the sadness and outrage we are feeling at such an inexplicable act of violence. I’ve been reading the blog entries everyday and find solace in the fact that Tombol was a very much loved and highly respected individual; most people live their whole lives and do not earn the kind of respect that Tombol has in his short time with us. For that, I am extremely honored to be a part of his family. May he rest in eternal peace. I pray that you remain strong and persevere. Justice will prevail! God be with you always.
The Taha Family
(Mysoon, Taisir, Dalal & Omar)
Since we heard about the tragic passing of our dear brother Tombol we have all been grief-stricken. All of you have been and remain in our thoughts and prayers and we are so relieved that all of you can finally be together. There are no words that can express the sadness and outrage we are feeling at such an inexplicable act of violence. I’ve been reading the blog entries everyday and find solace in the fact that Tombol was a very much loved and highly respected individual; most people live their whole lives and do not earn the kind of respect that Tombol has in his short time with us. For that, I am extremely honored to be a part of his family. May he rest in eternal peace. I pray that you remain strong and persevere. Justice will prevail! God be with you always.
The Taha Family
(Mysoon, Taisir, Dalal & Omar)
Tombol
Always I shall treasure the memory of our precious time together when you drove from Chicago to Roanoke to be with your grandfather and me.
This last surreal week with your Uncle Jon has bound us with your friends as well as fast friends of Shiera Sati and Samil.
Love always, Gran(Muriel Brobst)
This last surreal week with your Uncle Jon has bound us with your friends as well as fast friends of Shiera Sati and Samil.
Love always, Gran(Muriel Brobst)
With my deepest sympathy
Dear Malik family:
I only had one opportunity to meet Tombol (at Aliya's new restaurant) but based on that meeting and everything that I have heard about Tombol it made my heart break when I heard the news of the tragedy. It is disgusting to me that something like this could happen to such a good person for simply showing human kindness. And possibly even more troubling is the fact that the murderers are out on some freakish technicality - what else is it but wanton cruelty? I am truly, truly sorry for your loss and hope that time and prayer will heal your pain.
Tombol's spirit will live on forever!
Sonia
I only had one opportunity to meet Tombol (at Aliya's new restaurant) but based on that meeting and everything that I have heard about Tombol it made my heart break when I heard the news of the tragedy. It is disgusting to me that something like this could happen to such a good person for simply showing human kindness. And possibly even more troubling is the fact that the murderers are out on some freakish technicality - what else is it but wanton cruelty? I am truly, truly sorry for your loss and hope that time and prayer will heal your pain.
Tombol's spirit will live on forever!
Sonia
Tuesday, July 19, 2005
Condolences
Dear Sharaf,Karen,Sheira, Sati and Samil,
Nothing can be said that will match the deep sadness, anguish and even rage that one feels at these moments. Yet, you all must feel infinitely worse, and I sincerely prey to God to bestow his eternal serenity upon you and may Tonbol's soul rest in eternal peace. We havn't seen Tonbol for years but when I saw his photos, it is as if I had seen him a short while ago, so charming, so radiant! ... Let all of us be strong and together, until we see justice take its course.
Elfadil, Hind, Elfatih, Atheel and Mohamed Elmalik.
Nothing can be said that will match the deep sadness, anguish and even rage that one feels at these moments. Yet, you all must feel infinitely worse, and I sincerely prey to God to bestow his eternal serenity upon you and may Tonbol's soul rest in eternal peace. We havn't seen Tonbol for years but when I saw his photos, it is as if I had seen him a short while ago, so charming, so radiant! ... Let all of us be strong and together, until we see justice take its course.
Elfadil, Hind, Elfatih, Atheel and Mohamed Elmalik.
Tombol
Dear members of the Malik family,
this is to express my and Ada's condolences about the terrible tragedy that has happened to your son and brother. We couldn't believe that such unbelievably terrible attacks can happen apparently to anybody and anytime. Even our little one, Alexander, age 8, was very sad about this tragedy, although he can of course hardly grasp what this means. We haven't gotten to know you personally yet, but we want to let you know that all of Patrick's family is very close with you in this tragic moment.
With warmest regards,
Ada, Alexander, and Jürgen
this is to express my and Ada's condolences about the terrible tragedy that has happened to your son and brother. We couldn't believe that such unbelievably terrible attacks can happen apparently to anybody and anytime. Even our little one, Alexander, age 8, was very sad about this tragedy, although he can of course hardly grasp what this means. We haven't gotten to know you personally yet, but we want to let you know that all of Patrick's family is very close with you in this tragic moment.
With warmest regards,
Ada, Alexander, and Jürgen
Tombol
I wish I could say that I had the opportunity to meet Tombol. From everything I have been told, he was a true pleasure to be around. My friend Lana has shared with me so much about him, which I am sure is just the iceberg of how much he had to offer. It is funny because every time Lana recalls an anecdote that involves Tombol her face lights up and she cannot help but smile. This speaks volumes about his personality. He enhanced her life with his presence and I am thankful for that.
To Tombol's friends and family, I wish I knew the right thing to say. I am not even sure that there is a "right" thing to say in situations like these. What happened is horrific and I am so sorry for you all. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Shawna
To Tombol's friends and family, I wish I knew the right thing to say. I am not even sure that there is a "right" thing to say in situations like these. What happened is horrific and I am so sorry for you all. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Shawna
Tombol
To all the Malik family with my deepest condolences and great sadness.
Shiera let me know what happened to Tombol and I still don’t know what to say to you all about something so unimaginable. Words are utterly inadequate in response to such loss.
I have read the reports and am shocked to hear of such brutality.
The contrast with all the stories of Tombol couldn’t be more stark.
I am thinking of you all and praying that you find comfort in all the love for Tombol that comes from everyone who knew him.
I never met him and yet I can feel how much he was loved.
Shiera is a wonderful friend, and a very special person and I have met Samil and your father so I know what a lovely family Tombol comes from.
He was young, he was good and this should not have happened.
I hope that justice will be done.
With all my love from Bronwen
Shiera let me know what happened to Tombol and I still don’t know what to say to you all about something so unimaginable. Words are utterly inadequate in response to such loss.
I have read the reports and am shocked to hear of such brutality.
The contrast with all the stories of Tombol couldn’t be more stark.
I am thinking of you all and praying that you find comfort in all the love for Tombol that comes from everyone who knew him.
I never met him and yet I can feel how much he was loved.
Shiera is a wonderful friend, and a very special person and I have met Samil and your father so I know what a lovely family Tombol comes from.
He was young, he was good and this should not have happened.
I hope that justice will be done.
With all my love from Bronwen
Family tragedy
Dear Malik family,
we heard with great sadness of your family tragedy. Our thoughts are with you.
Eddie Hyland and Brid
we heard with great sadness of your family tragedy. Our thoughts are with you.
Eddie Hyland and Brid
My deepest condolences
To Samil and family,
I want to express my deepest condolences to you. It is really so very tragic and unfortunate and I want to say my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I hope your family can find strength in this trying time.
Amish Shah
I want to express my deepest condolences to you. It is really so very tragic and unfortunate and I want to say my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I hope your family can find strength in this trying time.
Amish Shah
You Will Never Be Forgotten, Tombol!
Dear Malik Family,
My name is Damany Dillard of Los Angeles, California and I attended Ray School and Kenwood High School with Tombol. He was dear to me and will never be forgotten. Rest In Peace.
Damany Dillard,
Ray School Class of 1997
Kenwood Academy Class of 2001
My name is Damany Dillard of Los Angeles, California and I attended Ray School and Kenwood High School with Tombol. He was dear to me and will never be forgotten. Rest In Peace.
Damany Dillard,
Ray School Class of 1997
Kenwood Academy Class of 2001
My condolences
Dear Malik Family,
I wanted to offer my condolences on your tremendous loss. I had the pleasure and honor of meeting Tombol while Samil and I were roommates at the University of Illinois. There was just something special about Tombol that I don’t know if I can truly describe. He was so warm and such a pleasure to be around. He seemed to enjoy life so much, and life was better with him in it. The thing that I will always remember about Tombol was his big smile and infectious sense of humor. Words can’t express my sadness for your loss. You are all in my prayers.
Jason Oliva
I wanted to offer my condolences on your tremendous loss. I had the pleasure and honor of meeting Tombol while Samil and I were roommates at the University of Illinois. There was just something special about Tombol that I don’t know if I can truly describe. He was so warm and such a pleasure to be around. He seemed to enjoy life so much, and life was better with him in it. The thing that I will always remember about Tombol was his big smile and infectious sense of humor. Words can’t express my sadness for your loss. You are all in my prayers.
Jason Oliva
Monday, July 18, 2005
Rest in peace, good friend
Hello, my name is Frederick J. Penman Jr. class of 2001 Kenwood Academy. To say a name like Tombol Malik it makes you think that this young vibrant male could have went on to win the Nobel Prize for Peace and maybe humanities. I met Tombol during my freshman year of high school at Kenwood Academy and right there I knew that no matter where we go in life he will still be one of my dearest friends. Tombol knew what to
say and say it so eloquently.
--
Frederick J. Penman Jr
say and say it so eloquently.
--
Frederick J. Penman Jr
Tombol
Dear Shiera and family,
I received the email with the terrible news today, and I am deeply shocked. I want to offer my sincere condolences and I am really at a loss at what to say. I want to let you know that I am thinking of you and wish you all strength in this terrible moment.
Alex
I received the email with the terrible news today, and I am deeply shocked. I want to offer my sincere condolences and I am really at a loss at what to say. I want to let you know that I am thinking of you and wish you all strength in this terrible moment.
Alex
Tombol
Dear Karen, Sharaf, Sati, Sheira, and Samil,
We just heard of your loss and are profoundly shaken. Our hearts go out to you. We will never forget Tombol following after Sati and Seth and Ed as they played baseball and football back behind the Drexel apartments. Tombol would laugh and laugh—he was such a happy child. And Sati would protect him (and Samil) fiercely—the best big brother someone could have.
After reading all the postings and news articles, nothing really makes sense except for the outpouring of love for Tombol—he obviously earned it. We too send you our love and pledge to do what we can to make this world a more compassionate world, a world with less and less senseless violence, a world where Tombol could live in peace.
Yours with deepest sympathy,
Steve and Jody Nelsen
We just heard of your loss and are profoundly shaken. Our hearts go out to you. We will never forget Tombol following after Sati and Seth and Ed as they played baseball and football back behind the Drexel apartments. Tombol would laugh and laugh—he was such a happy child. And Sati would protect him (and Samil) fiercely—the best big brother someone could have.
After reading all the postings and news articles, nothing really makes sense except for the outpouring of love for Tombol—he obviously earned it. We too send you our love and pledge to do what we can to make this world a more compassionate world, a world with less and less senseless violence, a world where Tombol could live in peace.
Yours with deepest sympathy,
Steve and Jody Nelsen
Tombol
Shiera and Malik family,
It is very sad news to hear about the death of your brother. I can only hope that you and your family can find strength in each other and your friends. All I can offer are my condolences.
Declan
It is very sad news to hear about the death of your brother. I can only hope that you and your family can find strength in each other and your friends. All I can offer are my condolences.
Declan
Condolences
Dear Sharaf, Karen, Shiera, Sati and Samil,
We have been grieved hearing the painful tragedy that happened to our blessed Son, Al Malik Tombol. Our heartfelt condolences to you all, May Allah bless him.
El Shareef Mustafa, Hassiba El Zubeir El Malik, Ahmed El Idrisy, Walaa, and the family from Sudan.
We have been grieved hearing the painful tragedy that happened to our blessed Son, Al Malik Tombol. Our heartfelt condolences to you all, May Allah bless him.
El Shareef Mustafa, Hassiba El Zubeir El Malik, Ahmed El Idrisy, Walaa, and the family from Sudan.
Tombol
Dear Malik Family,
My heart goes out to you. Tombol and I worked together at Cafe Florian. He had an innocence about him that people were instinctively drawn to--he was everyone's surrogate little brother. Shiera, as an older-sister, I think of you especially during this painful time. When I would give Tombol my "sisterly advice", he would always smile and tell me to relax, reminding me he already had a big-sister at home. Although we've never met, Tombol talked about you so much I feel as if we have. He was so proud of you. I feel privileged to have known Tombol. My prayers are with you all during this time of loss.
- Eve Kelly
My heart goes out to you. Tombol and I worked together at Cafe Florian. He had an innocence about him that people were instinctively drawn to--he was everyone's surrogate little brother. Shiera, as an older-sister, I think of you especially during this painful time. When I would give Tombol my "sisterly advice", he would always smile and tell me to relax, reminding me he already had a big-sister at home. Although we've never met, Tombol talked about you so much I feel as if we have. He was so proud of you. I feel privileged to have known Tombol. My prayers are with you all during this time of loss.
- Eve Kelly
We will always love and remember Tombol...
Shiera, Sati, Samil, Karen, and Dr. Malik -
It so hard to find the words to start. I have mourned, yet there is still a part of me that wants to wake up from a terrible dream. If there is ever a time that I wish I wasn't so far from home, it is now. We all go back so far...growing up on Drexel Ave. together and sharing so many memories and wonderful times. I have always and always will consider you the extended family that we never had in Chicago. Even as we all got older and went our ways (Shiera and until recently, me), whenever we came back to together, it was as if we were never apart. I have a feeling that although the physical distance may remain the same, this will bring us closer than ever before.
Like the pieces of a puzzle, you are each so different, but complete a perfect whole together. Tombol was the baby - that final piece. And although he his gone, I know the Malik strength will help you to continue on. Tombol wouldn't want it any other way. He was truly unique - a one and only - and the lives of those he touched will never be the same. I know mine won't; I was blessed so long to have known someone so special. Charismatic, respectful, caring, warm, gentle, fun, smart, compassionate, genuine...all the words people have used to describe him and there are so many more. We could make a dictionary alone of words to describe Tombol and only wish that more people would model after it. Take comfort in knowing that he is looking down on us and smiling in that warm, sweet, unforgettable way.
Tombol, "T-Bone" - you were taken from us entirely too soon. We love you, we miss you, and we will never forget you. May you rest in peace and may JUSTICE BE SERVED in your name. Until we meet again...
Love always,
Miriam
It so hard to find the words to start. I have mourned, yet there is still a part of me that wants to wake up from a terrible dream. If there is ever a time that I wish I wasn't so far from home, it is now. We all go back so far...growing up on Drexel Ave. together and sharing so many memories and wonderful times. I have always and always will consider you the extended family that we never had in Chicago. Even as we all got older and went our ways (Shiera and until recently, me), whenever we came back to together, it was as if we were never apart. I have a feeling that although the physical distance may remain the same, this will bring us closer than ever before.
Like the pieces of a puzzle, you are each so different, but complete a perfect whole together. Tombol was the baby - that final piece. And although he his gone, I know the Malik strength will help you to continue on. Tombol wouldn't want it any other way. He was truly unique - a one and only - and the lives of those he touched will never be the same. I know mine won't; I was blessed so long to have known someone so special. Charismatic, respectful, caring, warm, gentle, fun, smart, compassionate, genuine...all the words people have used to describe him and there are so many more. We could make a dictionary alone of words to describe Tombol and only wish that more people would model after it. Take comfort in knowing that he is looking down on us and smiling in that warm, sweet, unforgettable way.
Tombol, "T-Bone" - you were taken from us entirely too soon. We love you, we miss you, and we will never forget you. May you rest in peace and may JUSTICE BE SERVED in your name. Until we meet again...
Love always,
Miriam
Sunday, July 17, 2005
I am very sad
I am saddened by the sudden loss of your son Tombol. I ask God to bless him and forgive us all .....my prayers to you all for this painful ..but I ask heaven from God to him.
Your brother, uncle Khalid
Your brother, uncle Khalid
Dearest Tombol
Dearest Tombol~
It has taken me a long time to find the words to express my sadness and disbelief over what has happened. I still don't think that these words will be sufficient to express the loss and pain I feel inside. I have been truly blessed to have had you in my life in one way or another for the past few years. I will always remember the good vibes you constantly generated to those around you and your handsome, outgoing, easy to talk to and funny nature that was so contagious and intriguing. I loved how you loved people, dancing, traveling, and a good sense of humor. I remember the numerous times spent watching Conan or Chappelle's show, especially the Rick James episode, and laughing until our stomachs hurt. You are still one of the few guys I've met that loves to dance as much as I do. I would look forward to going out with you because I knew you would dance, I have that image of you dancing imprinted in my memory. You were the guy, kind, thoughtful, gentle and funny, that I assumed I would know forever. Although we didn't keep in touch frequently, I always imagined running into you somewhere around Chicago. I still find myself looking twice at people or waiting for you to walk through the door at Florian or Sonotech and I imagine I will do that for sometime. It is hard accepting that someone is no longer physically around, but I feel your presence every time I remember the time we spent together. Although I am outraged and deeply saddened, I know your light shines in all of us and will help to bring justice so that you may rest peacefully. Tombol, you are loved and will always be in our hearts.
Sincerely,
Hannah Breed
It has taken me a long time to find the words to express my sadness and disbelief over what has happened. I still don't think that these words will be sufficient to express the loss and pain I feel inside. I have been truly blessed to have had you in my life in one way or another for the past few years. I will always remember the good vibes you constantly generated to those around you and your handsome, outgoing, easy to talk to and funny nature that was so contagious and intriguing. I loved how you loved people, dancing, traveling, and a good sense of humor. I remember the numerous times spent watching Conan or Chappelle's show, especially the Rick James episode, and laughing until our stomachs hurt. You are still one of the few guys I've met that loves to dance as much as I do. I would look forward to going out with you because I knew you would dance, I have that image of you dancing imprinted in my memory. You were the guy, kind, thoughtful, gentle and funny, that I assumed I would know forever. Although we didn't keep in touch frequently, I always imagined running into you somewhere around Chicago. I still find myself looking twice at people or waiting for you to walk through the door at Florian or Sonotech and I imagine I will do that for sometime. It is hard accepting that someone is no longer physically around, but I feel your presence every time I remember the time we spent together. Although I am outraged and deeply saddened, I know your light shines in all of us and will help to bring justice so that you may rest peacefully. Tombol, you are loved and will always be in our hearts.
Sincerely,
Hannah Breed
Tombol
To The Malik Family,
I am deeply saddened by your loss. I did not know Tombol personally. My sister was friends with him and through the stories she told me I felt like I knew him. I was shocked when I heard the news about his death, I felt like I had lost a friend. My thoughts and prayers go out to your family.
Sincerely,
Erin L.
I am deeply saddened by your loss. I did not know Tombol personally. My sister was friends with him and through the stories she told me I felt like I knew him. I was shocked when I heard the news about his death, I felt like I had lost a friend. My thoughts and prayers go out to your family.
Sincerely,
Erin L.
Dear Shiera, Sati, Samil, Mother and Father,
We have known you all at least 25 years and have known Tombol since he was a toddler. I've watched him grow into a fine young man, polite, gentle, kind, smart -- just a wonderful human being. My pet name for him was "baby Tombol" since he was the youngest. I am greatly distressed, grieved and very angry at what happened to him. Tombol did not deserve this. May God bless you dearest Tombol and rest in peace. Family, be strong.
Love,
Dianne
We have known you all at least 25 years and have known Tombol since he was a toddler. I've watched him grow into a fine young man, polite, gentle, kind, smart -- just a wonderful human being. My pet name for him was "baby Tombol" since he was the youngest. I am greatly distressed, grieved and very angry at what happened to him. Tombol did not deserve this. May God bless you dearest Tombol and rest in peace. Family, be strong.
Love,
Dianne
Tombol
Hello. I didn't know Tombol, but I just read about what happened and I'm terribly sorry to hear it. I'm a UIC student, so to think that this happened on the same campus that I know so well makes the thought of it that much more pressing to me. I just wanted to say that my thoughts are with you, and with the whole family.
Rich Ranallo
Rich Ranallo
Saturday, July 16, 2005
My thoughts and prayers are with you
Dear Shiera, Sati, Samil, Karen and Dr. Malik,
My heart has been aching since the first moment when I learned about Tombol's death.
Shiera, you and I have known each other for so many years, and along with our friendship I have been honored to have met your wonderful brothers and lovely mother. I remember Tombol as a little boy. He was so sweet and your love for him seemed overflowing. I remember Tombol as a young man, too. I was so happily surprised to see him when he delivered for the Florian. It seemed as if he had grown two feet! He was always sweet and we spoke many times and exchanged news about this and that whenever we saw each other. Whenever I saw him, I thought about you Shiera.
Shiera, Sati, and Samil, my heart goes out to you. The wonderful closeness that you all share is so beautiful and has brought me to tears many times throughout this past week. You inspire us with your grace and dignity in the face of this tragedy.
The many friends present at the vigils are a testament to the love and friendship that Tombol had for the people in his life. The many warm and heartfelt memories that were shared, I'm sure are a mere fraction of what those present wanted to share if they could only put to words their thoughts at such an unbelievably sad time. Memories and tears were mixed with outrage at such a violent passing for such a gentle and kind soul. I believe justice must and will prevail.
Tombol is in my thoughts and prayers and those of my
mother, brother and sister.
With my love,
Eve Tselepatiotis
My heart has been aching since the first moment when I learned about Tombol's death.
Shiera, you and I have known each other for so many years, and along with our friendship I have been honored to have met your wonderful brothers and lovely mother. I remember Tombol as a little boy. He was so sweet and your love for him seemed overflowing. I remember Tombol as a young man, too. I was so happily surprised to see him when he delivered for the Florian. It seemed as if he had grown two feet! He was always sweet and we spoke many times and exchanged news about this and that whenever we saw each other. Whenever I saw him, I thought about you Shiera.
Shiera, Sati, and Samil, my heart goes out to you. The wonderful closeness that you all share is so beautiful and has brought me to tears many times throughout this past week. You inspire us with your grace and dignity in the face of this tragedy.
The many friends present at the vigils are a testament to the love and friendship that Tombol had for the people in his life. The many warm and heartfelt memories that were shared, I'm sure are a mere fraction of what those present wanted to share if they could only put to words their thoughts at such an unbelievably sad time. Memories and tears were mixed with outrage at such a violent passing for such a gentle and kind soul. I believe justice must and will prevail.
Tombol is in my thoughts and prayers and those of my
mother, brother and sister.
With my love,
Eve Tselepatiotis
1993 Rangers
This is how I remember Tombol: when I look at this photo of the 1993 Rangers -- Little League Champs that year of the HydePark/ Kenwood Baseball League -- I remember how Tombol and my son Daniel used to trade off in right field on that team, each as anxious as the other to be put in the game and send the other one back to the bench.....and how Tombol had the most cheerleaders when his sister or one of his brothers would come and sit in the stands -- never with the moms as we sat next to each other near the bottom -- but high up at the top, set apart in their teenaged-ness grinning at their little brother. Tombol's Mom and I marveled at our equally tall-and-skinny-all-elbows-and-knees sons as they increasingly moved away from awkwardness to better and greater skills in pursuit of their 7-inning dreams. Whenever Tombol dived after a long after a long-distance fly coming his way, he always came up smiling. Whether he had run up close enough to reach the ball or not, he always leaped out as far as he could hurl himself -- seemingly for the pure joy of throwing his body through the air!..... I guess we should be thinking now that Tombol has finally found his wings.....Oh my!... "Fly Tombol! Fly!"
Daniel's Mom (Julie)
To The Malik Family
I am very sorry to hear about your loss and I would like to extend my deepest condolences. Although I only met Tombol a couple times when he would visit Samil,I knew that he was very kind and respectful person. I am very sad to hear about his passing. I wish you all strength with this situation.
Chirag Shah (Cake)
Chirag Shah (Cake)
A wonderful person in Tombol
I attended Ray School with Tombol and heard of the tragedy on the news. When I heard the name and saw his face, tears instantly filled my eyes. Tombol and I have not been close and only spoke on chance occassions in Florian or downtown, but my reaction only tell of the type of person he was and the impact that he was able to leave on so many lives. Looking at the many messages that people have left for him also fills me with tears. Its so hard to believe that such cruelty exists in our world... but unfortunately it does.
To Tombol:
You were a special person to many and you will be greatly missed. As you look down on us know that the warmth of your smile will still continue to make others feel well. Everytime you smile looking down on us, someone will feel it.
Anthony you were a great friend to him and I remember so well how inseparable the two of you were at a young age. Not many people have that bond.
To the Family:
Even at Ray Tombol loved to rant on about his brothers and sister. EVERYONE knew who you guys were, and I know there is a hole there that he once filled. Stay strong and remeber that Tombol will continue to make sure that your lives are blessed.
May your Soul Rest Tombol,
Leslie Grooms
To Tombol:
You were a special person to many and you will be greatly missed. As you look down on us know that the warmth of your smile will still continue to make others feel well. Everytime you smile looking down on us, someone will feel it.
Anthony you were a great friend to him and I remember so well how inseparable the two of you were at a young age. Not many people have that bond.
To the Family:
Even at Ray Tombol loved to rant on about his brothers and sister. EVERYONE knew who you guys were, and I know there is a hole there that he once filled. Stay strong and remeber that Tombol will continue to make sure that your lives are blessed.
May your Soul Rest Tombol,
Leslie Grooms
Love & Support
I can't honestly say I knew Tombol very well. In fact of all the years I shared with him at Ray and Kenwood I don't know that we ever held a conversation. Nevertheless the more I see, hear, read and ruminate I am more and more compelled to tell you all that I'm thinking. The fact that I didn't know Tombol is irrelevant. The fact that such a beautiful person was caught in the path of such heinous acts, let alone trying to help someone, stirs a pain in me I have never felt. I have found on this page far more in the outpour/cry of love, support and more than fond memories than I would ever need to know to see that the Malik family has raised a genuinely outstanding person. A young man of great character, compassion, love, kindness and gentle sophistication. Someone received as a blessing in all the lives of those he touched, however large or small. I am wholeheartedly thankful for his life and that this world was ever able to have seen him at all, as people of such quality are most unfortunately a rare occurence. He indeed will be greatly missed, but far more remembered. I realize that there are no number of condolences or arrangement of words I can offer to help ease what you're feeling in such a difficult time, yet I can't accept not trying.
Lean on your faith. Rest on it not thinking but knowing the fact that Tombol's life has had many purposes, impacts, and influences which have served as a light in the lives of others as well as a milestone in a more divine scheme of things. Look to the Heavens for a greater understanding and a deeper healing. Unfathomable as it may seem in the midst of everything, both wait for you there. I pray that you might find comfort in knowing that even complete strangers like me were not beyond his reach and that you have mine as well as the Neal & Tuggle families' boundless love and support. Your family will remain in our thoughts and prayers.
Respectfully,
Bradley Neal
KA c/o 99
Lean on your faith. Rest on it not thinking but knowing the fact that Tombol's life has had many purposes, impacts, and influences which have served as a light in the lives of others as well as a milestone in a more divine scheme of things. Look to the Heavens for a greater understanding and a deeper healing. Unfathomable as it may seem in the midst of everything, both wait for you there. I pray that you might find comfort in knowing that even complete strangers like me were not beyond his reach and that you have mine as well as the Neal & Tuggle families' boundless love and support. Your family will remain in our thoughts and prayers.
Respectfully,
Bradley Neal
KA c/o 99
May Tombol's Memory Be Eternal
Dear Malik Family,
I had the honor of getting to know Tombol in 2000, during our study abroad in Hamburg. That trip is one of the most memorable times in my life and Tombol has a place in a lot of my memories. I remember some of the first conversations I had with Tombol. We both mentioned our brothers quite a bit and realized that we shared an extra special sense of closeness with our siblings. I'll also never forget browsing through a music shop in the airport when we were on our way home. Tombol told me to get a CD his brother had recommended...I took that CD out yesterday and listened to it. They say that some people live to be a 100, but never really live a single day. This site is a testament that Tombol truly lived life to the fullest. When someone dies, Greeks say: "May his memory be eternal." I have no doubt that Tombol's memory will be eternal. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
My sincerest condolences,
Eleni Giannakopoulos
I had the honor of getting to know Tombol in 2000, during our study abroad in Hamburg. That trip is one of the most memorable times in my life and Tombol has a place in a lot of my memories. I remember some of the first conversations I had with Tombol. We both mentioned our brothers quite a bit and realized that we shared an extra special sense of closeness with our siblings. I'll also never forget browsing through a music shop in the airport when we were on our way home. Tombol told me to get a CD his brother had recommended...I took that CD out yesterday and listened to it. They say that some people live to be a 100, but never really live a single day. This site is a testament that Tombol truly lived life to the fullest. When someone dies, Greeks say: "May his memory be eternal." I have no doubt that Tombol's memory will be eternal. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
My sincerest condolences,
Eleni Giannakopoulos
Shiera and Malik family
I met Tombol twice when he visited Shiera in Dublin - and once properly, when I had the privilege of sharing dinner with him last New Years Eve.
I was struck by the fact that he was very gentle but equally charismatic. He was someone special but amazingly modest about it all. ... We all had a fantastic night that night - I went away and told people that I'd met Shiera's brother who was a genuine nice guy. I really meant it and am lucky to have met him.
Sincere condolences to Shiera and the Malik family
Ronan, Dublin
I was struck by the fact that he was very gentle but equally charismatic. He was someone special but amazingly modest about it all. ... We all had a fantastic night that night - I went away and told people that I'd met Shiera's brother who was a genuine nice guy. I really meant it and am lucky to have met him.
Sincere condolences to Shiera and the Malik family
Ronan, Dublin
Tombol
Please accept my condolences for the untimely passing of Tombol. I know his life was a blessing to family and friends. My thoughts are with you.
Sincerely,
Tiffany Fendick
Sincerely,
Tiffany Fendick
To the family of Tombol Malik
To the Malik Family,
I loved Tombol and I still love him. Words can't express how much. I met Tombol freshman year of Highschool and he has been my best friend since. He is one of the people i stayed very close to after highschool. From the corniest jokes we cracked on eachother to late nite conversation about our lives,Tombol and I had a very wonderful friendship. I considered him as a brother. I have been so blessed to have encountered his beautiful spirit and because of the type of person Tombol was, it always made me wonder about the family he came from.He talked about you constantly with so much love and integrity and pride. Instead of talking about his death, i want to honor his life. He touched so many people with his spirit, his wisdom and most of all his love. These qualities that he possessed will stay with me as long as I live.I'm going to miss him...God Bless You!
love-
Kiara Shackelford
I loved Tombol and I still love him. Words can't express how much. I met Tombol freshman year of Highschool and he has been my best friend since. He is one of the people i stayed very close to after highschool. From the corniest jokes we cracked on eachother to late nite conversation about our lives,Tombol and I had a very wonderful friendship. I considered him as a brother. I have been so blessed to have encountered his beautiful spirit and because of the type of person Tombol was, it always made me wonder about the family he came from.He talked about you constantly with so much love and integrity and pride. Instead of talking about his death, i want to honor his life. He touched so many people with his spirit, his wisdom and most of all his love. These qualities that he possessed will stay with me as long as I live.I'm going to miss him...God Bless You!
love-
Kiara Shackelford
Known him little, respected him a lot... Tombol was a true gentleman.
Dear Malik family,
I heard of the violence at UIC a few days ago but I didn't know that it was Tombol that was attacked that evening until today when I read his name on a news site. Tombol was a good friend of mine when we went to Harold Washington College here in Chicago. He was a very unique individual in how he treated others with a level of grace and compassion that is unheard of these days. I used to share with him stories about my times in Sudan and Egypt, and even though he didn't know much about home, he seemed strongly attached to it considering how interested he was in knowing more. I wish I had the opportunity to go with him to Sudan someday. Even though my wish is no longer a possibility, I plan to make a charitable donation to the poor children of Sudan when I go back in December.
With my deepest condolences,
Ahmed A Hassan
I heard of the violence at UIC a few days ago but I didn't know that it was Tombol that was attacked that evening until today when I read his name on a news site. Tombol was a good friend of mine when we went to Harold Washington College here in Chicago. He was a very unique individual in how he treated others with a level of grace and compassion that is unheard of these days. I used to share with him stories about my times in Sudan and Egypt, and even though he didn't know much about home, he seemed strongly attached to it considering how interested he was in knowing more. I wish I had the opportunity to go with him to Sudan someday. Even though my wish is no longer a possibility, I plan to make a charitable donation to the poor children of Sudan when I go back in December.
With my deepest condolences,
Ahmed A Hassan
Tombol
Dear Tombol,
You were one of the few people in my life whom I felt a unique connection with. I could go months without seeing you, and then when we hung out it was as if we just talked the day before. Thank you for always being there, for being so kind, so compassionate, and so caring for everyone, especially those less fortunate. I was always amazed at your optimism; no matter what obstacles lay ahead you were always so calm and rational. My only regret was not investing more in our friendship.
Tombol, I believe no act of love will ever be lost, and you had plenty of them. I miss you.
Your Friend,
Andre
You were one of the few people in my life whom I felt a unique connection with. I could go months without seeing you, and then when we hung out it was as if we just talked the day before. Thank you for always being there, for being so kind, so compassionate, and so caring for everyone, especially those less fortunate. I was always amazed at your optimism; no matter what obstacles lay ahead you were always so calm and rational. My only regret was not investing more in our friendship.
Tombol, I believe no act of love will ever be lost, and you had plenty of them. I miss you.
Your Friend,
Andre
From Tombol's Computer Teacher at Ray School
Dear Samil, Shiera, and Sati,
Samil, you were in my son Eric's class at Ray School, and of course I remember Tombol as the little brother tagging along behind. Later I taught him in the computer lab at Ray, just as I did Samil. That was a long time ago, he would have been in 3rd or 4th grade. Eric and I were both shocked by the news last week; we knew immediately who it was. We can't even imagine what you guys are all going through.
You are in our thoughts.
Warmly,
Allan Stern
Samil, you were in my son Eric's class at Ray School, and of course I remember Tombol as the little brother tagging along behind. Later I taught him in the computer lab at Ray, just as I did Samil. That was a long time ago, he would have been in 3rd or 4th grade. Eric and I were both shocked by the news last week; we knew immediately who it was. We can't even imagine what you guys are all going through.
You are in our thoughts.
Warmly,
Allan Stern
Tombol
Dear Karen, Shiera, Sati and Samil,
Terry and I send you our sincerest sympathies. We are heartbroken over Tombol’s death. Terry and I loved Tombol. We have never, ever forgotten those early years when he and Owen were practically inseparable. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Love,
Kathy Anderson
Terry and I send you our sincerest sympathies. We are heartbroken over Tombol’s death. Terry and I loved Tombol. We have never, ever forgotten those early years when he and Owen were practically inseparable. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Love,
Kathy Anderson
Tombol
Dear Shiera, Sati, Ammo Sharaf and the rest of the Malik family,
There are no words to describe how I feel. What kind of world are we living in where senseless violence takes away such a beautiful and kind hearted person... As you all know I've never met Tombol personally but I feel as if I've lost a family member myself... I've had a hard time handling this news and I wish I could be there to grieve with you... I'm glad you are all together and that Ammo Sharaf was finally able to get out of Cairo... please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Warmest regards and my most sincere condolences.
Always,
Omar Elwaleed Taha Elmalik
There are no words to describe how I feel. What kind of world are we living in where senseless violence takes away such a beautiful and kind hearted person... As you all know I've never met Tombol personally but I feel as if I've lost a family member myself... I've had a hard time handling this news and I wish I could be there to grieve with you... I'm glad you are all together and that Ammo Sharaf was finally able to get out of Cairo... please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Warmest regards and my most sincere condolences.
Always,
Omar Elwaleed Taha Elmalik
Condolences
To the Malik Family,
I was one of Tombol's classmates at Kenwood Academy. I knew Tombol only casually, but his kindness and his sense of humor always filled the classrooms that I was fortunate to share with him. At a time when words seem so inadequate, I pray that the love of God would comfort you and would draw your family even closer together.
May God Bless You,
Gabrielle Parker
I was one of Tombol's classmates at Kenwood Academy. I knew Tombol only casually, but his kindness and his sense of humor always filled the classrooms that I was fortunate to share with him. At a time when words seem so inadequate, I pray that the love of God would comfort you and would draw your family even closer together.
May God Bless You,
Gabrielle Parker
Love and condolences to you
Dear Sati, Shiera, Samil, and Mr and Mrs Malik:
I was deeply saddened to hear of Tombol's passing tonight from some Kenwood friends here in New York. I
attended Ray and Kenwood with Sati and also knew Shiera. I remember Tombol as a gangly, adorable kid
much like the one in the photos on your website, with the most infectious smile. It sounds like he grew into
a wonderful young man, and I'm devastated to hear that he is no longer with us. I am sure that his warm
spirit lives on.
I wish you much peace, strength, and love.
Amy Hundley
Kenwood '91
I was deeply saddened to hear of Tombol's passing tonight from some Kenwood friends here in New York. I
attended Ray and Kenwood with Sati and also knew Shiera. I remember Tombol as a gangly, adorable kid
much like the one in the photos on your website, with the most infectious smile. It sounds like he grew into
a wonderful young man, and I'm devastated to hear that he is no longer with us. I am sure that his warm
spirit lives on.
I wish you much peace, strength, and love.
Amy Hundley
Kenwood '91
Tombol
Dear family,
I was stunned and saddened by the passing of Tombol. I was his 7th grade teacher at Ray School and remember Tombol as one of the sweetest, gentlest students I ever taught. He was extremely likeable, endearing and kind. My heart and thoughts are with you during this difficult time.
Sincerely,
Mary Cobb
I was stunned and saddened by the passing of Tombol. I was his 7th grade teacher at Ray School and remember Tombol as one of the sweetest, gentlest students I ever taught. He was extremely likeable, endearing and kind. My heart and thoughts are with you during this difficult time.
Sincerely,
Mary Cobb
With sympathy
To Tombol and the Malik family,
I heard about the story in the news and it tore me apart. I actually have never met Tombol, but by the way people describe him, I wish I could have had the chance to meet him as he has touched so many people's lives. Mr. and Mrs. Malik, Samil, Shiera, Sati, I am truly sorry for your loss and I know this is hard for you, as well as all his friends. You are all in my prayers. God will keep him safe in heaven, insha'Allah. Tombol, rest in Peace.
May God bless your family,
Huda Dabbouseh
I heard about the story in the news and it tore me apart. I actually have never met Tombol, but by the way people describe him, I wish I could have had the chance to meet him as he has touched so many people's lives. Mr. and Mrs. Malik, Samil, Shiera, Sati, I am truly sorry for your loss and I know this is hard for you, as well as all his friends. You are all in my prayers. God will keep him safe in heaven, insha'Allah. Tombol, rest in Peace.
May God bless your family,
Huda Dabbouseh
A few words of condolence
As I am too far away to attend any of the events physically, I want to use this way to express my dolor about the tragedy and my deepest sympathy to the family and friends of Tombol.
I have met quite a few people in my life, but it rarely happened to me that someone invites me at the first meeting to stay over at his place for a weekend, then drags me out to the best parties in town and introduces me to all of his friends. The weekends in Chicago were certainly one of the best time I had during my stay in the United States. Most of that was due to the great company of Tombol and his friends. I always hoped to get the chance to give back a part of this hospitality and friendliness. Maybe in Germany or England during the next academic year.
The description of Tombol in the papers as a nice and peaceful guy falls short of the reality. Tombol was an outstanding, deep and wonderful personality. A person who increased the worthiness of the world and life of the people around him. Someone who cared so much about his friends and whose passing away is an irreplaceable loss to them.
from Hanoi, Vietnam
Le Tu Duc
I have met quite a few people in my life, but it rarely happened to me that someone invites me at the first meeting to stay over at his place for a weekend, then drags me out to the best parties in town and introduces me to all of his friends. The weekends in Chicago were certainly one of the best time I had during my stay in the United States. Most of that was due to the great company of Tombol and his friends. I always hoped to get the chance to give back a part of this hospitality and friendliness. Maybe in Germany or England during the next academic year.
The description of Tombol in the papers as a nice and peaceful guy falls short of the reality. Tombol was an outstanding, deep and wonderful personality. A person who increased the worthiness of the world and life of the people around him. Someone who cared so much about his friends and whose passing away is an irreplaceable loss to them.
from Hanoi, Vietnam
Le Tu Duc
Tombol
To the Malik Family,
My name is Malaika Martin. My heartfelt prayers go out to you. I went to Kenwood with Tombol and had many classes with him. We often sat next to each other because my name was right after his on the rooster. I remember Tombol as the witty and handsome guy that always kept you smiling. Tombol was a special person and I am happy that I got to experience him as a part of my life. I may not have been one of his closest friends but Tombol still has had an impact on my life as well as many others. May God bless you and give you peace.
Malaika
My name is Malaika Martin. My heartfelt prayers go out to you. I went to Kenwood with Tombol and had many classes with him. We often sat next to each other because my name was right after his on the rooster. I remember Tombol as the witty and handsome guy that always kept you smiling. Tombol was a special person and I am happy that I got to experience him as a part of my life. I may not have been one of his closest friends but Tombol still has had an impact on my life as well as many others. May God bless you and give you peace.
Malaika
Malik Family
I never had the opportunity to meet Tombol, I only knew of him that in itself has changed my life. Tombol had an ambiance about him which was truly inspiring. My deepest sympathies and prayers are with you, your family, and everyone who knew Tombol.
Justice will be served!!!
Peace be with you,
Katie
Justice will be served!!!
Peace be with you,
Katie
Missing Tombol
I went to high school with Tombol. He was a great friend with a huge heart. His face was so warm and full of love that it put you in a happy place. I will always think of him and smile. I would see him occasionally in Hyde Park at looking at him smile always brighten my day.
Condolences,
Evita Allen
Condolences,
Evita Allen
Tombol
To the Malik family,
I only met Tombol twice but I picked up on the warmth that radiated from his smile the minute we were introduced. He seemed like a genuinely good guy, and from what I hear from his friends, that's exactly what he was. All the condolences in the world can't express my sorrow for your family. You're in my thoughts, prayers and in my heart.
Nicole Frehsee
I only met Tombol twice but I picked up on the warmth that radiated from his smile the minute we were introduced. He seemed like a genuinely good guy, and from what I hear from his friends, that's exactly what he was. All the condolences in the world can't express my sorrow for your family. You're in my thoughts, prayers and in my heart.
Nicole Frehsee
To the Malik family in remembrance of Tombol
To the Malik family in rememberance of Tombol,
I first met Tombol when he was 16 or 17. I had the pleasure of working with him at the Florian for several years, but more importantly he was my friend. He was such a goofy kid.He was the guy who would say the
same joke over and over until someone laughed. I would often crack up so hard, I thought I would pee my pants. His jokes were usually terrible, but it was his determination to get a reaction that got to me. I always told Tombol he reminded me of "Fifel" from the American Tale move. Not only because of the hat he wore everyday for a year,but he would just look at you with the most ridiculous expression in his face.
More recently we would see eachother out on the town.Whenever I saw him,my girlfriends would say "who is that gorgeous guy?? Please introduce him to me!!" This to me was funny because like many of my friends, I
thought of Tombol as a little brother. However it is undeniable that Tombol was just coming into his own as a smart,kind,humorous,and handsome young man. He was taken from us too soon,and my heart breaks for everyone affected by this loss.
It is obvious Tombol was blessed with such a beautiful and strong family. My deepest thoughts and prayers are with them now and always..... I love you Tombol, and I am honored to have known you.
always, Kelly Hartford
I first met Tombol when he was 16 or 17. I had the pleasure of working with him at the Florian for several years, but more importantly he was my friend. He was such a goofy kid.He was the guy who would say the
same joke over and over until someone laughed. I would often crack up so hard, I thought I would pee my pants. His jokes were usually terrible, but it was his determination to get a reaction that got to me. I always told Tombol he reminded me of "Fifel" from the American Tale move. Not only because of the hat he wore everyday for a year,but he would just look at you with the most ridiculous expression in his face.
More recently we would see eachother out on the town.Whenever I saw him,my girlfriends would say "who is that gorgeous guy?? Please introduce him to me!!" This to me was funny because like many of my friends, I
thought of Tombol as a little brother. However it is undeniable that Tombol was just coming into his own as a smart,kind,humorous,and handsome young man. He was taken from us too soon,and my heart breaks for everyone affected by this loss.
It is obvious Tombol was blessed with such a beautiful and strong family. My deepest thoughts and prayers are with them now and always..... I love you Tombol, and I am honored to have known you.
always, Kelly Hartford
thoughts and prayers
Dear Malik Family,
I was Tombol's computer teacher at Ray School for a number of years. I'm unspeakably sorry for your loss. Tombol was a true treasure. I had a baby, stopped teaching, and moved to the Washington DC area soon after Tombol graduated from Ray. There are a number of students who I often think fondly of and wonder how they are doing. Tombol was always one of those I knew was having a special impact somewhere. He was one of those kids who everyone knew and loved. He was always positive and willing to go the extra mile for a friend. He was just so sweet and easy going it's such a loss to all who knew him. Thank you so much for sharing everyone's thoughts and prayers; it is some small solace to know how well he was loved by all who knew him.
Yvonne Whittier
I was Tombol's computer teacher at Ray School for a number of years. I'm unspeakably sorry for your loss. Tombol was a true treasure. I had a baby, stopped teaching, and moved to the Washington DC area soon after Tombol graduated from Ray. There are a number of students who I often think fondly of and wonder how they are doing. Tombol was always one of those I knew was having a special impact somewhere. He was one of those kids who everyone knew and loved. He was always positive and willing to go the extra mile for a friend. He was just so sweet and easy going it's such a loss to all who knew him. Thank you so much for sharing everyone's thoughts and prayers; it is some small solace to know how well he was loved by all who knew him.
Yvonne Whittier
My Condolence To Your Family
I remember when Shafi and Shiera were friends, Sati was playing with the boys in the neigborhood and Samil and Tombol were just babies. Our family is very, very sad for your great loss.
Katrin Threet
Glendale, Arizona
Katrin Threet
Glendale, Arizona
WITH DEEPEST SYMPATHY
TO THOSE I LOVE and THOSE WHO LOVE ME
When I am gone, release me - let me go for I have many things to see and do. You must not tie yourself to me with tears, be happy that we had so "many" years. I give to you my love, you can only guess How much you gave to me in happiness. Thank you for the love you each have shown but now it is time I travel alone. So grieve a while for me, if you must, then let your grief be comforted by trust. It's only for a little while that we must part, So bless the memories with your heart. I won't be far away, for life goes on, So if you need me, call--And I will come. Though you cannot see me, or touch me, I'll be near and if you listen with your heart, you will hear, all my love around, soft and dear, and when you must come this way alone, I'll greet you with a smile and wave
"HELLO"
via the Angel Tombel
With love & prayers,
Theo's Mom & Sister
(Carolyn & Nicole)
When I am gone, release me - let me go for I have many things to see and do. You must not tie yourself to me with tears, be happy that we had so "many" years. I give to you my love, you can only guess How much you gave to me in happiness. Thank you for the love you each have shown but now it is time I travel alone. So grieve a while for me, if you must, then let your grief be comforted by trust. It's only for a little while that we must part, So bless the memories with your heart. I won't be far away, for life goes on, So if you need me, call--And I will come. Though you cannot see me, or touch me, I'll be near and if you listen with your heart, you will hear, all my love around, soft and dear, and when you must come this way alone, I'll greet you with a smile and wave
"HELLO"
via the Angel Tombel
With love & prayers,
Theo's Mom & Sister
(Carolyn & Nicole)
Friday, July 15, 2005
Tombol
Dear Shiera, Dear Malik Family,
It's so hard to find words. We didn't know Tombol but we are deeply moved and we are so sorry. We wish to express our sincere condolences! Shiera, our thoughts are with you and your family!
Susanne and Olli from Berlin, Germany
It's so hard to find words. We didn't know Tombol but we are deeply moved and we are so sorry. We wish to express our sincere condolences! Shiera, our thoughts are with you and your family!
Susanne and Olli from Berlin, Germany
Tombol
Dear Malik Family,
My name is Olivia Griffith-Garrett and I use to attend Ray School with Tombol. I didn't know Tombol personally, but just from being on this site. He was and is loved by all his family, friends and acquaintances. My prayers are with your family.
Olivia Griffith-Garrett
Ray Class of 1995
My name is Olivia Griffith-Garrett and I use to attend Ray School with Tombol. I didn't know Tombol personally, but just from being on this site. He was and is loved by all his family, friends and acquaintances. My prayers are with your family.
Olivia Griffith-Garrett
Ray Class of 1995
My favorite Sox fan
One of my fondest memories of Tombolaya is when we went to a White Sox game in 2001. I’d hung out with him many times within a group context as we’d known each other from Ray days to Kenwood and beyond, but that was the first one on one. I was amazed at just how well the conversation flowed and how similar we really were. I could talk with him in depth about sports, hip hop, politics – anything. He was educated, charming, chivalrous, athletic – he was the kind of guy every girl wants and most guys aspire to be. I was going to ask him to a Sox game later this season. I don’t have to worry about him not being there in flesh, because he’ll definitely be there with me in my thoughts.
In an effort to try to make sense of all this, I continue rely on my mantra of “Everything happens for a reason.” When I think of what this reason could be, I hope that all the accounts of his life and the way he lived will show others how to truly have as positive an effect on the people they encounter as Tombol did.
Malik family: You can be proud of the way Tombol lived his life. I feel privileged that I had the opportunity to know him. I’ll keep both you and Tombol in my thoughts.
With Love,
Jeanelle Sims
In an effort to try to make sense of all this, I continue rely on my mantra of “Everything happens for a reason.” When I think of what this reason could be, I hope that all the accounts of his life and the way he lived will show others how to truly have as positive an effect on the people they encounter as Tombol did.
Malik family: You can be proud of the way Tombol lived his life. I feel privileged that I had the opportunity to know him. I’ll keep both you and Tombol in my thoughts.
With Love,
Jeanelle Sims
Tombol
I had the pleasure of calling Tombol one of my friends throughout grammar and high school. I am furious at the way we've lost my him, one that always had a smile on his face and never had any enemies. I remember going to Florian with my friends Darryl and Erik just to see him (well I just thought he was so cute) and chill on the weekends. I will miss seeing him coincidentally on 53rd St. or at random get-togethers. Although Tombol is gone, he will always watch over his Hyde Park family with a smile and kind heart.
Love Always,
Lisa Laws
Love Always,
Lisa Laws
Tombol will be missed...
I went to high school with Tombol. He was truly special and unique. I am greatly pained to hear that such a horrible thing happened to such a wonderful person. He was always happy and kept a smile on his face. He was so mature and use to give great advice. I remember one year he wrote in my high school yearbook, that it is better to keep to yourself and stay out of trouble, than to strive to be popular. He received attention because of the good qualities he displayed not because of trying to fit in. He had such in impact on my life that I used to talk about him to my sisters. He was loved by many, and will be missed.
Mourning,
Evita T.
Mourning,
Evita T.
My Condolences
Samil and Malik Family:
I met Tombol a few times when he visited Samil at U of I. He was obviously a very special person - very gentle and sweet. I offer my deepest sympathies for your loss. His death was senseless and terrible and I cannot imagine the pain you must feel. My prayers and thoughts are with you.
Sweta
I met Tombol a few times when he visited Samil at U of I. He was obviously a very special person - very gentle and sweet. I offer my deepest sympathies for your loss. His death was senseless and terrible and I cannot imagine the pain you must feel. My prayers and thoughts are with you.
Sweta
Thursday, July 14, 2005
Tombol
To the Malik family and all of Tombol's friends,
I never had the chance to meet Tombol, but I am with you in grieving his loss. I am outraged with you at the release of his murderers. I am hoping with you that justice is ultimately done. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
The vigil last night was powerful, beautiful. The diversity of friends and supporters that attended says so much about Tombol, the kind of open and loving person he was: able to reach out and connect in world that wants to isolate, suffocate, violate.
I send you peace, hope, and love in this time of grief and outrage.
Yours,
Tanuja
I never had the chance to meet Tombol, but I am with you in grieving his loss. I am outraged with you at the release of his murderers. I am hoping with you that justice is ultimately done. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
The vigil last night was powerful, beautiful. The diversity of friends and supporters that attended says so much about Tombol, the kind of open and loving person he was: able to reach out and connect in world that wants to isolate, suffocate, violate.
I send you peace, hope, and love in this time of grief and outrage.
Yours,
Tanuja
with all my heart...
Tombol's family-
My name is LaToya Jones. Tombol and I were very good friends since the seventh grade at Ray School Rm. 307. Later in high school we became best friends and shared many late night conversations daily and exchanged more than enough witty sarcasm. It absolutely broke my heart to realize that I will never again encounter his beautiful spirit, but I marvel at the more that great times we shared, and it calms me to know that the loved we shared was always real no matter what. In this time of silent sorrow, my entire heart goes out to you guys because I loved Tombol very deeply, and it is impossible to love Tombol without being grateful from the family that he belonged to. I call him my sweet love, and he is.
I love you guys, and may peace be unto you
LaToya Jones
My name is LaToya Jones. Tombol and I were very good friends since the seventh grade at Ray School Rm. 307. Later in high school we became best friends and shared many late night conversations daily and exchanged more than enough witty sarcasm. It absolutely broke my heart to realize that I will never again encounter his beautiful spirit, but I marvel at the more that great times we shared, and it calms me to know that the loved we shared was always real no matter what. In this time of silent sorrow, my entire heart goes out to you guys because I loved Tombol very deeply, and it is impossible to love Tombol without being grateful from the family that he belonged to. I call him my sweet love, and he is.
I love you guys, and may peace be unto you
LaToya Jones
Thoughts to the Family
I am a Kenwood Grad Class of 1991, my older sister Class of 1989 and little sister is Class of 2001. I remember Tombol from Cafe Florian in Hyde Park. We all swore he was so handsome! My sister (c/o 2001) said he went to Kenwood with her, so that added to his appeal.
It is very hard to lose a family member or friend. Our condolences to the family and the peace of God that excels all thought will guard your hearts....
Aletta
It is very hard to lose a family member or friend. Our condolences to the family and the peace of God that excels all thought will guard your hearts....
Aletta
Tombol
Dear Malik Family,
My name is Christina Thomas and I grew up with Anthony and tombol. I attended Ray and Kenwood. I am currently in New Orleans and was very shocked and angered to hear about Tombol's passing. The Ray class of 96 is an extremely close group and we have lost too many. Althought Tombol is gone, he will never be forgotten, his laugh will always be heard through out the hallways of Ray. You are in my thoughts and prayers
Christina
My name is Christina Thomas and I grew up with Anthony and tombol. I attended Ray and Kenwood. I am currently in New Orleans and was very shocked and angered to hear about Tombol's passing. The Ray class of 96 is an extremely close group and we have lost too many. Althought Tombol is gone, he will never be forgotten, his laugh will always be heard through out the hallways of Ray. You are in my thoughts and prayers
Christina
Condolences and Prayers
My name is Michael Brown. I went to Ray School with Tombol from 3rd grade to 8th and we were pretty tight. During lunch time, we always managed to get into something. I can remember when we were In 7th and 8th grade, Tombol would walk with me after school to pick up my little brother Matthew pre-school. Since I stayed in Hyde Park we even hung out after school together.
The one thing that made Tombol special was his humor and wit. He was never a follower and was cool in his own way. Every time we ran into each other we would talk for hours, just catching up on what was going on in our lives. It is really amazing how many people knew Tombol and how many lives he touched. Tombol was truly a good friend and kind person, he will always be missed.
Our condolences and prayers to the Malik family.
Michael, Lurie and Matthew Brown
The one thing that made Tombol special was his humor and wit. He was never a follower and was cool in his own way. Every time we ran into each other we would talk for hours, just catching up on what was going on in our lives. It is really amazing how many people knew Tombol and how many lives he touched. Tombol was truly a good friend and kind person, he will always be missed.
Our condolences and prayers to the Malik family.
Michael, Lurie and Matthew Brown
my thoughts and prayers...
To Samil and Family--
I had heard the story in the news, but Melissa helped me make the connection to you, as I had didn't realize it at the time. I can't even put into words my sympathies. I have a brother, and the thought of losing him is beyond measurable pain. This is truly senseless and I am shocked people as vile are even allowed to walk the streets.
Nothing can ever make up for this loss, but cherish all the memories you have and visit them every day. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. I truly hope that all the support around will provide you with the strength you need to get through this difficult time.
Please take care...
Biny
I had heard the story in the news, but Melissa helped me make the connection to you, as I had didn't realize it at the time. I can't even put into words my sympathies. I have a brother, and the thought of losing him is beyond measurable pain. This is truly senseless and I am shocked people as vile are even allowed to walk the streets.
Nothing can ever make up for this loss, but cherish all the memories you have and visit them every day. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. I truly hope that all the support around will provide you with the strength you need to get through this difficult time.
Please take care...
Biny
Comment on Tombol's tragic death
Our two sons, Michael and Erik, grew up in the Hyde Park Neighborhood and knew Tombol. Michael, in fact, worked with him on occasion. Our family is shocked and saddened by what happened. Please accept on condolences. We will keep you all in our prayers.
Clifford J. Treese
Clifford J. Treese
my condolenses
hello Malik Family,
My name Anwar Burt and I wanted to let you all that tombol was a friend of mine and one of my favorite server while he work at Cafe Florian. We shared many memories and his presence is deeply missed. I have you all in my prayers during this trying time
My name Anwar Burt and I wanted to let you all that tombol was a friend of mine and one of my favorite server while he work at Cafe Florian. We shared many memories and his presence is deeply missed. I have you all in my prayers during this trying time
tombol
Dear Maliks,
I almost don't know where to begin, but I will try. It has been an honor to be with you in this terrible time, you are an incredible family. While I was riding in the car last night with you I was moved by your love for each other and the deep understanding that siblings seem to share. I want to say that you are fortunate to have each other but I also feel that the special bond between the three of you cries out for your lost brother, like something that is perfect and is now missing a piece. It's hard to imagine the horror of loosing a loved one so young and in so violent a manner. When I lost my father I felt both that it was both an undeserved loss and that somehow it was fated. That all the paths of our lives converged on this event and then spred out from it, but it didn't have to happen. This should never have happened to Tombol. I am so sorry and I hope I can be of some comfort as you deal with this tragedy.
Much love,
Ariel
I almost don't know where to begin, but I will try. It has been an honor to be with you in this terrible time, you are an incredible family. While I was riding in the car last night with you I was moved by your love for each other and the deep understanding that siblings seem to share. I want to say that you are fortunate to have each other but I also feel that the special bond between the three of you cries out for your lost brother, like something that is perfect and is now missing a piece. It's hard to imagine the horror of loosing a loved one so young and in so violent a manner. When I lost my father I felt both that it was both an undeserved loss and that somehow it was fated. That all the paths of our lives converged on this event and then spred out from it, but it didn't have to happen. This should never have happened to Tombol. I am so sorry and I hope I can be of some comfort as you deal with this tragedy.
Much love,
Ariel
Tombol Malik
Deepest sympathies for your family during this time and hoping you find comfort in the lifetime of special memories of your brother.
Sandra
New York, NY
Sandra
New York, NY
Thinking of you and praying every day.
Dear Malik family,
When I heard the messages on my answering machine about what had happened to Tombol, the first thing I thought about was how it could not be possible. I'm sure that anyone who knew Tombol would say that he was not the kind of guy who would be in that type of a situation. I knew Tombol since I was nine years old. We went to Ray School, Kenwood, and Harold Washington together. Sati, I do not have enough words to say how sorry I am about this, and how unfortunate this is for you and your family. James, Kitty, and Wyllys are all thinking of you and your family. I have many wonderful memories of Tombol and how supportive he was as my friend. I will miss this big gentle giant. I will always remember the times we spent at Florian, and at Sonoteque where we listened to reggae music. I will remember all of the wonderful and kind words that he said to me and I will never forget him.
love, Leonie Mann
When I heard the messages on my answering machine about what had happened to Tombol, the first thing I thought about was how it could not be possible. I'm sure that anyone who knew Tombol would say that he was not the kind of guy who would be in that type of a situation. I knew Tombol since I was nine years old. We went to Ray School, Kenwood, and Harold Washington together. Sati, I do not have enough words to say how sorry I am about this, and how unfortunate this is for you and your family. James, Kitty, and Wyllys are all thinking of you and your family. I have many wonderful memories of Tombol and how supportive he was as my friend. I will miss this big gentle giant. I will always remember the times we spent at Florian, and at Sonoteque where we listened to reggae music. I will remember all of the wonderful and kind words that he said to me and I will never forget him.
love, Leonie Mann
Tombol
Dear Malik Family,
I hope you will accept my sincerest condolences during this time of loss for your family. I never had the opportunity to know Tombol other then hearing his name from my friend Lana, but I did have the opportunity to meet Samil and Aliya when I came to Chicago in April. Due to the horrendous circumstances of Tombol's death my mind is numb and I feel lacking anything of true solace that could be said to you all. However, know that Samil and Aliya, you are in my thoughts and I wish you and your families peace.
All my best,
Nancy Vitello
Denver, CO
I hope you will accept my sincerest condolences during this time of loss for your family. I never had the opportunity to know Tombol other then hearing his name from my friend Lana, but I did have the opportunity to meet Samil and Aliya when I came to Chicago in April. Due to the horrendous circumstances of Tombol's death my mind is numb and I feel lacking anything of true solace that could be said to you all. However, know that Samil and Aliya, you are in my thoughts and I wish you and your families peace.
All my best,
Nancy Vitello
Denver, CO
Tombol
My name is Suheily Natal and I went to Ray and Kenwood with Tombol. I can't ever remember a time when Tombol wasn't smiling. I am so incredibly sad about this. My prayers continue to be with you.
deepest sorrow
With deepest sympathy I send this to you. I am a junior at UIC and a friend of Tombol. I met him my freshman year. He was such a sweet boy. He was a great person. I wish you strength and hope, that he will most certaintly be in a better place. May God be with you, may God help you understand this tragedy.
Most respectfully,
Farah Shakir
Most respectfully,
Farah Shakir
So very sorry...
My heart goes out to all of you in this time of sorrow, outrage and pain. Mere words can not even begin to express how sad and disheartend our entire family is over Tombol’s horrific death.
My very best regards to all.
Love,
Charly
My very best regards to all.
Love,
Charly
Condolences
Dear Family,
My name is Amy, I'm a friend of Dianne Yurco's. I was acquainted with your mother through Dianne, and have met her, and some others of you, at Dianne's place a couple of times.
I am so sorry to hear this devastating news. Words fail entirely.
If I can be of any assistance to you, I hope you will call on me. I live in Hyde Park, I have a car. I know Dianne is away. If I can help out with rides or in any other way, I would like to.
I keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.
Yours in sorrow,
-Amy
My name is Amy, I'm a friend of Dianne Yurco's. I was acquainted with your mother through Dianne, and have met her, and some others of you, at Dianne's place a couple of times.
I am so sorry to hear this devastating news. Words fail entirely.
If I can be of any assistance to you, I hope you will call on me. I live in Hyde Park, I have a car. I know Dianne is away. If I can help out with rides or in any other way, I would like to.
I keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.
Yours in sorrow,
-Amy
We are greiving ...
with you all. I was blessed to know Tombol at the Park Grill. He clearly demonstrated a big heart and pure family values. We knew him as a friendly team player who understood the value of "making people happy." He'll be missed. My prayers are with the family.
Mario Ponce
former General Manager, Park Grill at Millennium Park
Mario Ponce
former General Manager, Park Grill at Millennium Park
Tombol
Dear Malik Family,
I smile when I think of how we used play in that big old yard in back of your building on Maryland and the tot-lot after school and all summer long. Sati, Shiera, Samil, Molly, Jay, Heather, Danny and I.
In 7th grade something happened to Sati. Girls lost their minds over him. He became this hottie! I could tell he wanted to run for his life from some of them. I recall when Tombol was a lump in his mother's tummy and then when he first began walking. He grabbed EVERYTHING he could reach. Shiera and I used to play with him and say, "What a happy little guy he is." He had the most infectious laugh when he was little. (I hope that carried into his adulthood.) I can see that he grew up to be happy and very loved guy.
Tombol will be greatly missed.
You are in my prayers Malik Family.
Shafi
I smile when I think of how we used play in that big old yard in back of your building on Maryland and the tot-lot after school and all summer long. Sati, Shiera, Samil, Molly, Jay, Heather, Danny and I.
In 7th grade something happened to Sati. Girls lost their minds over him. He became this hottie! I could tell he wanted to run for his life from some of them. I recall when Tombol was a lump in his mother's tummy and then when he first began walking. He grabbed EVERYTHING he could reach. Shiera and I used to play with him and say, "What a happy little guy he is." He had the most infectious laugh when he was little. (I hope that carried into his adulthood.) I can see that he grew up to be happy and very loved guy.
Tombol will be greatly missed.
You are in my prayers Malik Family.
Shafi
Tombol
Samil and Family
My name is Gina (Cervantes) Egeland I am formerly of Chicago and am currently living in Iowa City, IA. Samil, you will remember me as your manager several years ago at the Structure store on Michigan Avenue. I was reading the Chicago Tribune online on Sunday when I came across the article regarding the tragic death of your beloved brother Tombol, my heart dropped when I realized through quotes and later pictures in the paper that it was indeed your brother. I have been thinking of all of you ever since, just cannot get you out of my mind. I am so sorry for the loss that you are experiencing, I have two brothers and although they live on opposite ends of the country, cannot imagine what my life would be without them. I wish that I could be with you tonight at the gathering that you are holding to express your outrage that one of these individuals has been released on bail, as I am outraged as well, I will be there with you in spirit. I can see from all the letters from friends and family on the web-site you created for Tombol that he was a very special person, I know I would have liked him as I instantly did Samil when I hired him on so many years ago. Through the strength of your family and friends you will get through this dark time. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
God Bless,
Gina (Cervantes) Egeland
My name is Gina (Cervantes) Egeland I am formerly of Chicago and am currently living in Iowa City, IA. Samil, you will remember me as your manager several years ago at the Structure store on Michigan Avenue. I was reading the Chicago Tribune online on Sunday when I came across the article regarding the tragic death of your beloved brother Tombol, my heart dropped when I realized through quotes and later pictures in the paper that it was indeed your brother. I have been thinking of all of you ever since, just cannot get you out of my mind. I am so sorry for the loss that you are experiencing, I have two brothers and although they live on opposite ends of the country, cannot imagine what my life would be without them. I wish that I could be with you tonight at the gathering that you are holding to express your outrage that one of these individuals has been released on bail, as I am outraged as well, I will be there with you in spirit. I can see from all the letters from friends and family on the web-site you created for Tombol that he was a very special person, I know I would have liked him as I instantly did Samil when I hired him on so many years ago. Through the strength of your family and friends you will get through this dark time. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
God Bless,
Gina (Cervantes) Egeland
deepest sympathy for Tombol...
Dearest Malik Family,
I met Tombol only a couple of years ago dancing around from scene to scene. He has always been one of the nicest guys I've met. We would joke around more than anything, never serious, but he'd watch us girls in a protective manner...always a safe-keeper.
I am so sorry for the loss of such a wonderful and endearing brother, son and friend. His spirit will forever grace us and remind us to stay gentle. I can only hope that this horrible event will find the justice it deserves. Know that all of us stand next to your family and that when you call on us for comfort or help, an army will be waiting.
Peace be with you,
~Anna~ Medakovich
I met Tombol only a couple of years ago dancing around from scene to scene. He has always been one of the nicest guys I've met. We would joke around more than anything, never serious, but he'd watch us girls in a protective manner...always a safe-keeper.
I am so sorry for the loss of such a wonderful and endearing brother, son and friend. His spirit will forever grace us and remind us to stay gentle. I can only hope that this horrible event will find the justice it deserves. Know that all of us stand next to your family and that when you call on us for comfort or help, an army will be waiting.
Peace be with you,
~Anna~ Medakovich
from his librarian at Ray
Dear Malik Family,
It was my honor and priviledge to know Tombol every year that he was at Ray School. At the school library, I see children over a period of years and watch them grow and develop. Tombol is one of the people that I knew as a student at Ray who made a lasting impression on me. He loved his friends, especially Anthony. He loved baseball. He loved coming to the Library and just talking, sometimes skipping lunch recess to do so. He was always part of whatever was going on, but he had a gentle, reflective streak and he enjoyed coming to discuss his feelings, his hopes and his dreams in a quiet place.
Leslie
It was my honor and priviledge to know Tombol every year that he was at Ray School. At the school library, I see children over a period of years and watch them grow and develop. Tombol is one of the people that I knew as a student at Ray who made a lasting impression on me. He loved his friends, especially Anthony. He loved baseball. He loved coming to the Library and just talking, sometimes skipping lunch recess to do so. He was always part of whatever was going on, but he had a gentle, reflective streak and he enjoyed coming to discuss his feelings, his hopes and his dreams in a quiet place.
Leslie
Tombol Malik
Dear Malik Family:
I want to express my deepest sympathy for your loss. I was a friend of Tombol, we attended Kenwood High School together.
Very truly yours,
DeAnna Rose Foster
I want to express my deepest sympathy for your loss. I was a friend of Tombol, we attended Kenwood High School together.
Very truly yours,
DeAnna Rose Foster
Condolences
To the Malik family,
I didn't know Tombol, but I play soccer often with Sati. I just wanted to express my sympathies for your loss. What happened to him was truly a tragedy, and my prayers are with you.
--Eric Sun
I didn't know Tombol, but I play soccer often with Sati. I just wanted to express my sympathies for your loss. What happened to him was truly a tragedy, and my prayers are with you.
--Eric Sun
Tombol
Our family was heartbroken to hear and read about Tombol and the horrific circumstances of his death. We are friends of the Straus family, and had met and seen Tombol with David on many occasions. Our daughter, Rebecca, was a year behind him at Ray, and remembers Tombol with great fondness. Words are never adequate for such circumstances, but please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. We hope that you can find some peace in your memories of such a fine young man.
The Nichols Family
The Nichols Family
Tombol
I do not believe I had the pleasure of knowing Tombol, but what a shame for what seems to be a good person. My thoughts and well wishes are with the Malik family, and may God rest Tombol's soul. I pray that justice will prevail to the monsters that did this.
Nicole B.
Nicole B.
Sincere condolences
To the Malik family --
I did not know Tombol but I wanted to express my sincere sympathy and sadness over such a tragic and needless act of violence.
Tombol appears to have been one of God's chosen soldiers. It's the loss of what could have been for Tombol that makes me the saddest of all -
I hope you will all find the strength to carry on soon --
David Gariano
I did not know Tombol but I wanted to express my sincere sympathy and sadness over such a tragic and needless act of violence.
Tombol appears to have been one of God's chosen soldiers. It's the loss of what could have been for Tombol that makes me the saddest of all -
I hope you will all find the strength to carry on soon --
David Gariano
My Condolences to the Malik Family
My condolences to Tombol's Mother and Family, I did not know your family, nor Tombol. As a mother I feel your mother's heart breaking, as a sister, I also feel the brother's and sister's heart breaking. But rest assure that God will prevail and bring justice to this injustice. Man might not punish this injustice, but God will prevail and bring
comfort and justice where it is needed the most. Put everything in God's hands and you will find peace. Remember that there are loving people in this world that care about you and feeling your pain as their own. God Bless you and give you strength in the days to come.
Angelica,
Elgin, IL.
comfort and justice where it is needed the most. Put everything in God's hands and you will find peace. Remember that there are loving people in this world that care about you and feeling your pain as their own. God Bless you and give you strength in the days to come.
Angelica,
Elgin, IL.
Thank You Tombol
Thank you, Tombol,
Thank you for always making us smile and laugh! Thank you for caring about poverty,homelessness, and suffering in the world. Thank you for putting others beforeyourself. Thank you for being kind, considerate, and compassionate. Thank you for always being polite. Thank you for thinking outside the box. Thank you for living your life with conviction and purpose. Thank you for being principled. Thank you for respecting all people. Thank you for wanting to make a difference. Thank you for making me think about my own brothers each time I saw you interact with yours. Thank you for giving so much joy and love to your family. Thank you for being an example to all of us. Thank you for being the sunshine in so many lives.
Jim Thiede
Thank you for always making us smile and laugh! Thank you for caring about poverty,homelessness, and suffering in the world. Thank you for putting others beforeyourself. Thank you for being kind, considerate, and compassionate. Thank you for always being polite. Thank you for thinking outside the box. Thank you for living your life with conviction and purpose. Thank you for being principled. Thank you for respecting all people. Thank you for wanting to make a difference. Thank you for making me think about my own brothers each time I saw you interact with yours. Thank you for giving so much joy and love to your family. Thank you for being an example to all of us. Thank you for being the sunshine in so many lives.
Jim Thiede
Tombol
I knew about this senseless act of violence, but was unaware that the victim was Tombol until I saw his photo. The only way I can adequately describe the way I felt was numb. I worked with Tombol three years ago, and though it was only for a few short months, I always remembered his sense of humor, intelligence and the way he carried himself with a sense of purpose. I still cannot believe that this happened. As evident by the fact that I only "knew" him for roughly 90 days and his passing has affected me in such profound fashion, you can rest assured that your son and brother was truly a special man.
My most heartfelt condolences.
Blair Borgia
My most heartfelt condolences.
Blair Borgia
Tombol
Dear
Shiera, Sati, Samil Mom and Dad,
My heart goes out to you. Tombol was such a sweet gentle sole and loved by everyone who knew him. I love you all and my thoughts and prayers are with you. I can not imagine the pain and sorrow you all are feeling. Watching you all grow up was a pure joy for me and I will miss Tombol his sweet smile, wonderful sense of humor, how respectful he was towards others and how helpful and caring he was towards people and animals. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love you all
Christine Bailey
Shiera, Sati, Samil Mom and Dad,
My heart goes out to you. Tombol was such a sweet gentle sole and loved by everyone who knew him. I love you all and my thoughts and prayers are with you. I can not imagine the pain and sorrow you all are feeling. Watching you all grow up was a pure joy for me and I will miss Tombol his sweet smile, wonderful sense of humor, how respectful he was towards others and how helpful and caring he was towards people and animals. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love you all
Christine Bailey
Tombol
My name is Toska Palmer. I didn't know Tombol but felt compelled to read this story posted. Life can be so unfair at times but know that Tombol is in a better place. I know that there's nothing that I or anyone else can say to ease your pain, but know that Tombol is looking down on us wishing that we could have as much peace as he does right now.
Justice will be served.
Justice will be served.
Tombol
Dear Malik family,
I wanted to offer my condolences during this difficult time. May Tombol's soul rest in peace and may you find the strength and courage to bear this irreparable loss.
I knew Tombol very well. From the minute I met him, I knew he was special. He had smile that would melt your heart, laughter so infectious that your sides would hurt. He was a kind and gentle human being, who made everyone feel special. You should be proud of the son you raised.
He will never be forgotten by the people who loved and cared about him.
It is difficult to comprehend how people behave these days and take away innocent lives. I hope that justice is brought to those animals that committed such a vicious and cruel crime.
Jeannine Colaco
I wanted to offer my condolences during this difficult time. May Tombol's soul rest in peace and may you find the strength and courage to bear this irreparable loss.
I knew Tombol very well. From the minute I met him, I knew he was special. He had smile that would melt your heart, laughter so infectious that your sides would hurt. He was a kind and gentle human being, who made everyone feel special. You should be proud of the son you raised.
He will never be forgotten by the people who loved and cared about him.
It is difficult to comprehend how people behave these days and take away innocent lives. I hope that justice is brought to those animals that committed such a vicious and cruel crime.
Jeannine Colaco
Tombol
I didn't know Tombol. We went through Kenwood eleven years apart. But I knew Sheira from that time and I knew a little about your family. Since Tombol's death, I have learned a lot more. The courage and compassion you all have shown in the face of indescribable tragedy is inspiring. I am amazed by the effort you have put forth to create space for friends of Tombol, and all people who deplore acts of senseless violence, to express their feelings and speak their piece. The result, such an outpouring of affection and sadness, speaks volumes.
My heart goes out to you.
Joe Asbury
My heart goes out to you.
Joe Asbury
Tombol
I was so distressed to hear about Tombol's death and to experience with Mike the terrible unfolding of the details of his senseless death. To witness how Mike and Erik have been affected by this loss I am aware for the first time what a wonderful presence he was in their lives. My heart goes out to you all.
Jean Treese
Jean Treese
My condolences
Hello Samil and family,
This is Cory Swafford(from U of I) and I just learned
the tragic news. I want send my deepest condolences
to you and your family.
Cory
This is Cory Swafford(from U of I) and I just learned
the tragic news. I want send my deepest condolences
to you and your family.
Cory
Tombol
I do not know you, but after seeing the first dreadful news report of Tombol's attack and death I have not been able to get this horrific senseless tragedy out of my mind. I can only imagine the sorrow, anger, and emotional turmoil you are going through. With tears in my eyes, I read the many posts on the web site you have set up for Tombol, and he was so loved. Everyone speaks of him with such admiration. It is easy to see in your pictures how close and loving your family is. I do not understand why this happened, but as a mother myself I felt inclined to write and express my heartfelt sorrow for your family. I hope with time, and the wonderful memories you have of Tombol, the pain will lesson. I know it will be a hard road, but just reading about Tombol tells me he would want those he loved to live out their lives in the same joyous way you did when he was with you. He will want you to carry on for him just as he remembers life with his family and friends. I know there is not much I can say to relieve your sorrow at this time, but I hope it helps to know so many people are praying for Tombol, his family and friends.
Just a stranger who cares,
Nancy
Just a stranger who cares,
Nancy
Tombol...
Tombol, it was a privilege to have known someone as genuine, down to earth, compassionate, and funny as you. The world needs more people like you.
We send our deepest sympathies to the Malik family.
-Alan & Sadie
We send our deepest sympathies to the Malik family.
-Alan & Sadie
Prayers
To the Malik Family,
I don't know your family, but I can tell that you are very close. I read about the senseless tragedy in the newspaper and normally just keep on going with my life. As someone with two siblings I couldn't help but feel your sadness.
I just wanted to let you know that my family will offer our deepest condolences and prayers to your family and hope that your brother rests in peace.
Sincerely,
Bruno Dacanay and family
Chicago IL
I don't know your family, but I can tell that you are very close. I read about the senseless tragedy in the newspaper and normally just keep on going with my life. As someone with two siblings I couldn't help but feel your sadness.
I just wanted to let you know that my family will offer our deepest condolences and prayers to your family and hope that your brother rests in peace.
Sincerely,
Bruno Dacanay and family
Chicago IL
I'm sorry
To the Malik Family,
My name is Daniel Rogers and I went to Ray school, Kenwood Academy and played Baseball with Tombol for a few years when we were kids. I'm terribly sorry to hear what has happened. My mother Julie Less passes on her condolences as well. You'd think we'd be beyond such pettiness in this world. There is so much that I would like to say, but then again there is nothing that I can say. So, I will just leave you with my thoughts, prayers and the wish that you all can find some measure of peace despite this tragic occurence.
Daniel
My name is Daniel Rogers and I went to Ray school, Kenwood Academy and played Baseball with Tombol for a few years when we were kids. I'm terribly sorry to hear what has happened. My mother Julie Less passes on her condolences as well. You'd think we'd be beyond such pettiness in this world. There is so much that I would like to say, but then again there is nothing that I can say. So, I will just leave you with my thoughts, prayers and the wish that you all can find some measure of peace despite this tragic occurence.
Daniel
Sympathy goes out to Tombol's family and friends...
Dear Malik Family:
I never knew Tombol or anyone from your family. I live in Palos Park and read all about the tragedy in the Tribune and Southtown yesterday--my face was tear streaked by the end of the article. I have not stopped thinking about this incident since I first heard about it. My sympathy and thoughts are with all of you who knew Tombol. I am sickened by what happened...and outraged that a bond was set. I have been discussing this incident with all of my friends...and we are all truly upset by this tragedy. I cannot begin to imagine how the family and friends must feel. This has made me remember what a cruel world we live in--justice must be reached in this case! Know that Tombol's story is spreading and uniting strangers together...though I never knew him, he has definitely still touched my life.
My prayers are with the Malik family and friends.
God Bless,
Shannon
I never knew Tombol or anyone from your family. I live in Palos Park and read all about the tragedy in the Tribune and Southtown yesterday--my face was tear streaked by the end of the article. I have not stopped thinking about this incident since I first heard about it. My sympathy and thoughts are with all of you who knew Tombol. I am sickened by what happened...and outraged that a bond was set. I have been discussing this incident with all of my friends...and we are all truly upset by this tragedy. I cannot begin to imagine how the family and friends must feel. This has made me remember what a cruel world we live in--justice must be reached in this case! Know that Tombol's story is spreading and uniting strangers together...though I never knew him, he has definitely still touched my life.
My prayers are with the Malik family and friends.
God Bless,
Shannon
My condolence
My name is Dr. Shelby Wyatt. I am a guidance counselor at Kenwood Academy. I was one of the counselor who worked with Tombol or "Malik" as I called him when he was a student at Kenwood. I'm in utter shock. I learned of this tragedy while vacationing in Baltimore. My sincerest prayers and offers of condolence is extended to each family member and friend. I have found memories of Tombol, especially as he tried to get me to pronounce his last name Malik (short a sound) instead of Malique.
Dr. Wyatt
Dr. Wyatt
tombol my friend
Hello
My name is Kevin Lakin i have know Tombol since 2001 through Ben Drake and i got to say he was always happy and having a good time with life. I also DJ and for the past few years Tombol and crew would support me by showing up and being the life of the party. When i heard aobut this inhumane act i thought this city has gone crazy cause it just lost most of it's mass appeal without Tombol. I just really want your family to know that there is a lot of love from many people young and old that will deeply miss Tombol, and his smile and that your family will stay strong and make the best out of the situation. You have all the love in my hart as if i was another son. please accept these kind words into your hearts.
Love
Kevin A Lakin
A.K.A DJ EMO
My name is Kevin Lakin i have know Tombol since 2001 through Ben Drake and i got to say he was always happy and having a good time with life. I also DJ and for the past few years Tombol and crew would support me by showing up and being the life of the party. When i heard aobut this inhumane act i thought this city has gone crazy cause it just lost most of it's mass appeal without Tombol. I just really want your family to know that there is a lot of love from many people young and old that will deeply miss Tombol, and his smile and that your family will stay strong and make the best out of the situation. You have all the love in my hart as if i was another son. please accept these kind words into your hearts.
Love
Kevin A Lakin
A.K.A DJ EMO
Tombol
The family and friends of Tombol,
I met Tombol through mutual friends about three years ago. Three of the most memorable weeks of my life were spent with him enjoying the beaches and festivities of Brazil. We traveled through Rio with a carefree attitude, taking in the times and adventures. For the duration of the trip, we were able to experience the beauty of life. We stayed with about 12 people in a three bedroom aprtment. Instead of complaining, Tombol slept outside in a hammock every single night, and left more space for everyone else. That was the kind of person that he was. Although his life was ended by a savage act of violence, nothing can take away the times that people shared with him or the legacy that he leaves us with.
Vincent Goldstein
I met Tombol through mutual friends about three years ago. Three of the most memorable weeks of my life were spent with him enjoying the beaches and festivities of Brazil. We traveled through Rio with a carefree attitude, taking in the times and adventures. For the duration of the trip, we were able to experience the beauty of life. We stayed with about 12 people in a three bedroom aprtment. Instead of complaining, Tombol slept outside in a hammock every single night, and left more space for everyone else. That was the kind of person that he was. Although his life was ended by a savage act of violence, nothing can take away the times that people shared with him or the legacy that he leaves us with.
Vincent Goldstein
We Will Miss U!
Dear Malik Family,
I am sorry for your loss. I know words could never fill the empty space in your hearts. Tombol was an amazing guy. His smile brought happiness to everyone. My sister and I will never forget the times he made us laugh. He will be truly missed.
Miriam
I am sorry for your loss. I know words could never fill the empty space in your hearts. Tombol was an amazing guy. His smile brought happiness to everyone. My sister and I will never forget the times he made us laugh. He will be truly missed.
Miriam
My Condolences
Malik Family,
I want to send my deepest condolences. I cannot begin
to describe how shocked and hurt I am right now. May justice prevail.
Sincerly,
Brent Nikolin
I want to send my deepest condolences. I cannot begin
to describe how shocked and hurt I am right now. May justice prevail.
Sincerly,
Brent Nikolin
Tombol
My heart and prayers for Tombol and his family-
I am so lucky to have known Tombol. He was the lil big heart man of the crew from the Florian. He always had your back, he knew and spoke the truth, and he kept us laughing ALL the time. I have to know that things were better when he was around...my prayers
and heart go to the Malik family. - Patrick Brown
I am so lucky to have known Tombol. He was the lil big heart man of the crew from the Florian. He always had your back, he knew and spoke the truth, and he kept us laughing ALL the time. I have to know that things were better when he was around...my prayers
and heart go to the Malik family. - Patrick Brown
Remembering Tombol
When Tombol was about 9 years old he accidentally saw my mom in her bra. I remember him immediately covering his eyes and ducking his head. For as long as I knew him, Tombol always exuded that same aura of child-like innocence. Tombol’s wondrous eyes absorbed only the splendor of the world around him. Tombol translated that splendor it into a brilliant smile that he so generously shared with us. His smile exuded a joy and vivaciousness beyond description. I wish I could cover my eyes and duck my head in response to this horrible tragedy. I am so deeply sorry for your loss. Only the good die young.
Rachael S.
Rachael S.
Tombol
Tombol always seemed so happy and funny whenever I saw him in the hallways at Kenwood. He and my brother graduated in the same year and he and I both are saddened at the news of his passing. When my brother learned of his death, he was out with friends and could not bring himself to dance knowing what happened. So thank you to his family for nurturing the gift that was Tombol and my family's prayers are with you.
Nicole and Alvin Black 3rd & family
Nicole and Alvin Black 3rd & family
Little Brother
Mr. & Mrs. Malik, Shiera, Sati, and Samil
We offer our deepest sympathies and prayers for your family. My name's Theo. It was never spoken, but I felt that it was a mutual feeling between Tombol and I, that he was like a little brother to me. His loss has affected me in a way that I would have never thought possible. Trips to New York and working together at Florian are only a small part of the memories that I'll cherish. Tombol's approach to life and new experiences was one of wide-eyed curiosity. His sense of humor and quick wit were his trademark. He was one of the most mature young men that I ever had the good fortune of meeting. His physical form may no longer exist, but his spirit remains.
Love you little brother,
Theo, Melissa, & Miles
We offer our deepest sympathies and prayers for your family. My name's Theo. It was never spoken, but I felt that it was a mutual feeling between Tombol and I, that he was like a little brother to me. His loss has affected me in a way that I would have never thought possible. Trips to New York and working together at Florian are only a small part of the memories that I'll cherish. Tombol's approach to life and new experiences was one of wide-eyed curiosity. His sense of humor and quick wit were his trademark. He was one of the most mature young men that I ever had the good fortune of meeting. His physical form may no longer exist, but his spirit remains.
Love you little brother,
Theo, Melissa, & Miles
My condolenses
The Malik Family,
Ever since I met Tombol on the varanda in me and Ben's apartment in Brazil, I noticed that we saw the world through the same light. He was a visionary with an incredibly strong character that never stopped fighting for justice and truth. We would talk about how the world needed to be changed and how we would change it. When there was a moral dilemma he would help me look at things objectively to see what was the best thing to do. He would be most appalled by what happened Sat. But Im sure he would still have faith. He became one of my best friends in in only two years of knowing him. I will never forget how he inspired me to never lower the bar on whats right and
whats wrong. I remember how important it was for him to ensure that his sister had a good time when she visited and that everyone treated her with respect. He put her and his other family members before everyone and I regret greatly not being at the vigil. I send my deepest blessings to the Malik family. Throughout the day, and mostly when I go to sleep, I shake my head in disbelief so as to wake myself up from this nightmare. He has changed me and will be in my heart, wherever I go, forever.
genuinely,
alex
Ever since I met Tombol on the varanda in me and Ben's apartment in Brazil, I noticed that we saw the world through the same light. He was a visionary with an incredibly strong character that never stopped fighting for justice and truth. We would talk about how the world needed to be changed and how we would change it. When there was a moral dilemma he would help me look at things objectively to see what was the best thing to do. He would be most appalled by what happened Sat. But Im sure he would still have faith. He became one of my best friends in in only two years of knowing him. I will never forget how he inspired me to never lower the bar on whats right and
whats wrong. I remember how important it was for him to ensure that his sister had a good time when she visited and that everyone treated her with respect. He put her and his other family members before everyone and I regret greatly not being at the vigil. I send my deepest blessings to the Malik family. Throughout the day, and mostly when I go to sleep, I shake my head in disbelief so as to wake myself up from this nightmare. He has changed me and will be in my heart, wherever I go, forever.
genuinely,
alex
Big Smiles
Smiling! BIG SMILES! I mean HUGE! That is how I remember 4 year old Tombol tagging along behind his big brother Sati at Hyde Park Soccer club games. When I saw Tombol just over a year ago at the Café Florian… he was smiling! Tombol is smiling in all of the pictures on your BLOG. When I think about Tombol, and not the horror of this tragedy… I cannot help but SMILE! I know Tombol is watching over us all… and I bet he’s smiling!
My deepest condolences…
Erik Treese
My deepest condolences…
Erik Treese
Big Smiles
Smiling! BIG SMILES! I mean HUGE!
That is how I remember 4 year old Tombol tagging along behind his big brother Sati at Hyde Park Soccer club games. When I saw Tombol just over a year ago at the Café Florian… he was smiling! Tombol is smiling in all of the pictures on your BLOG.
When I think about Tombol, and not the horror of this tragedy… I cannot help but SMILE! I know Tombol is watching over us all… and I bet he’s smiling!
My deepest condolences…
Erik Treese
That is how I remember 4 year old Tombol tagging along behind his big brother Sati at Hyde Park Soccer club games. When I saw Tombol just over a year ago at the Café Florian… he was smiling! Tombol is smiling in all of the pictures on your BLOG.
When I think about Tombol, and not the horror of this tragedy… I cannot help but SMILE! I know Tombol is watching over us all… and I bet he’s smiling!
My deepest condolences…
Erik Treese
Please be strong...
please be strong, and carry on Tombol's light within yourselves. I pray for peace in my city of Chicago, and in the world.
signed,
an aquaintance of Anthony Popelka, he knows me as Skulken from TZT.
signed,
an aquaintance of Anthony Popelka, he knows me as Skulken from TZT.
Remembering Tombol
I knew of Tombol through my brother fred who graduated from Kenwood in 2001. As i returned home from out of town on Monday, my brother called and said Tombol had been killed. I was sadden by this news and thought how could a person murder such a nice person as Tombol. He was a bright young man with a promising future. To the Malik family i am sorry for your loss and you will be in my contiunal prayers. The memory of Tombol will always be with me and. I know the Kenwood Academy Alumni who knew Tombol are sadden by the loss but know we must not forget the times we had at Kenwood. For his memory will live on.
Respect in Peace Tombol
Donald Penman
Respect in Peace Tombol
Donald Penman
To Tombol
Tombol-
I remember the first time I met you ... it was on your birthday this year. Aliya had told me so much about you and Samil, I was excited to finally get the faces with the names. I remember feeling instantly accepted, you were just that kind of person. You just had a way of making people feel that they were worth knowing. You would go out of your way to make sure that everyone had what they needed ... was comfortable ... having a good time ... it was who you were, you couldn't help it. You turned out to be one of my favorite dance partners ... me you and Aliya @ Sound Bar love those pics!! It seemed like whenever we would hang out there was some sort of dancing and just ... happiness involved, I mean, people were just happy around you. I feel so lucky that I got to spend that evening with you and Paul having drinks and talking about films ... you had great taste in movies and a hilarious NY Italian accent that you would throw out at just the right time and make everyone laugh, it never got tired, it was always funny. You were so passionate about your trip to Egypt and my mom had just gotten back, I remember how interested you were in her experience and thinking ... wow, this human being is so incredibly special. I'm not sure that you had any idea how much I looked forward to seeing you, even though I know you know now and that, in a way, is comforting.
Thank you for letting me know you for the brief time I did ... I will always remember your life and celebrate your incredible spirit.
With all the love I have-
Lana
I remember the first time I met you ... it was on your birthday this year. Aliya had told me so much about you and Samil, I was excited to finally get the faces with the names. I remember feeling instantly accepted, you were just that kind of person. You just had a way of making people feel that they were worth knowing. You would go out of your way to make sure that everyone had what they needed ... was comfortable ... having a good time ... it was who you were, you couldn't help it. You turned out to be one of my favorite dance partners ... me you and Aliya @ Sound Bar love those pics!! It seemed like whenever we would hang out there was some sort of dancing and just ... happiness involved, I mean, people were just happy around you. I feel so lucky that I got to spend that evening with you and Paul having drinks and talking about films ... you had great taste in movies and a hilarious NY Italian accent that you would throw out at just the right time and make everyone laugh, it never got tired, it was always funny. You were so passionate about your trip to Egypt and my mom had just gotten back, I remember how interested you were in her experience and thinking ... wow, this human being is so incredibly special. I'm not sure that you had any idea how much I looked forward to seeing you, even though I know you know now and that, in a way, is comforting.
Thank you for letting me know you for the brief time I did ... I will always remember your life and celebrate your incredible spirit.
With all the love I have-
Lana
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